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I just called the cops on a mom with a baby....

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:15 PM
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 We went to the market. On the way in a woman was sitting on the ground  holding a little baby who looked around a few months old.  She first shouted Bless you to us....whatever...then she ask someone coming out for spare change.

We were there for about 20 minutes or so...when dh was in line I decided to take the kids and put them inot the car. When I exited she was still there, and at this point it is pouring rain and still really cold. She is still asking people for change!

When we got home I called the non emergency line and asked them to do a welfare check on her.

What would you have done?

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:15 PM
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Fallaya
by Popcorn Queen on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:18 PM
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Offered her a meal and an umbrella. If she had no place to go, then I'd offer to take her to a shelter.

illinoismommy83
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:20 PM
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I would have asked her what she needed for her baby and gone in and purchased it... then I would have asked if she was in touch with the local women's shelter and offered her bus fare to the shelter.

mommy29x3
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:20 PM


Quoting Fallaya:

Offered her a meal and an umbrella. If she had no place to go, then I'd offer to take her to a shelter.


I agree

adnamanoslrac
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:21 PM
Asked what size diapers the baby wore, bought some. Taken her to a local shelter.
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MommyFlood
by Stacie on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM
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Eeesh. That's tough. I may have done what you did, I may have talked to her first, Idk. It's so hard to say what I would do in situations like this, ya know? I definitely don't think you did anything wrong!
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kemmerer411
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM
Idk. I personally wouldn't buy her anything or give her any money like others are suggesting.

I would prob do what you did.
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barunka050811
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM
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Ask her how i can help her.

But i think u did the right thing too , she might get the help she needs this way too.

FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM

I would have asked her if I could take her and her baby somewhere.

Quoting MsDean:

 We went to the market. On the way in a woman was sitting on the ground  holding a little baby who looked around a few months old.  She first shouted Bless you to us....whatever...then she ask someone coming out for spare change.

We were there for about 20 minutes or so...when dh was in line I decided to take the kids and put them inot the car. When I exited she was still there, and at this point it is pouring rain and still really cold. She is still asking people for change!

When we got home I called the non emergency line and asked them to do a welfare check on her.

What would you have done?


RobinChristine
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM

let her know of the emergency agencies that could help her such as womens shelthers,the local YMCA....,whatever your community offers.

rockinmomnwife
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:22 PM

 Ask her if she has been to a shelter and if she needed something for the baby. Makes me sad to hear a baby being out in the rain and cold like that :(

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