should i tell her or let her figure it out on her own

[ShhhItsASecret]

I have this friend. She always seems to attract ass holes. She has low self esteem and I think She just wants to feel loved. Last guy she was with beat her. Now she's with a new guy and she made a post about how she's tired of these hoes trying to get with her man. So I commented how do you know they are trying to get with him. They have a long distance relationship she's in Virginia and he's in Texas, So she's not around to know what's going on. My only was he had to tell her. Well he commented, I told her, I don't hide anything.
Now the only reason I think he would tell her this is to make her jealous. Which is not cool. Don't make the girl get worried about you cheating on her. If it's true just tell all these chicks that you got a girl and leave it alone. No reason to upset her.
Should I tell her what I think. I have no proof, but I really believe that's what he is doing. Or do I just ignore it and let her get hurt later.

[ff-princess]

is she going to listen to you anyway with her past record on judging the character of men, or is she going to do what she's going to do anyway and then come to you later for a shoulder to cry on?  that would determine whether I stepped into the middle of that mess or not.

[outtamymynd]

If she will listen, tell her. If not she'll have to figure it out for herself.

[elle7777]

Leave it alone. If it wasn't this loser it would be another loser until she finds some self worth...

[ShhhItsASecret]

OMG she just called me. Like I said he live in Texas and her in Virginia. There relationship has been on Facebook. They have had a 2 Month Facebook relationship and when he moves there they are getting a place together. She has 2 kids, She really needs to work on getting her kids back instead of finding ass hole men. She sees her kids like 3 times a year because there dad won't let her see them.
And She said the chick was texting him flirting with him. Really not many girls are like that and if she Sid he would of had to give her his number.

[louzannalady]

I think that is what he is doing, too. : ( To be honest, she won't believe you. She is not in a good place in her life and it is hard to pull a person out of that place. They have to realize they are ready to do something different, to be a different person, a more confident person. I hope that you are able to reach her. I know, I would try. She needs good friends like you. 

[Sweets27]

I wouldn't tell her. She probably won't listen to you anyways.

[TarotMommy]

Tell her to focus on being a mother and forget men until she has her shit together. Moving some stranger in is ludicrous.

[angie729]

Agree

Quoting TarotMommy:

Tell her to focus on being a mother and forget men until she has her shit together. Moving some stranger in is ludicrous.

[1likeme]

That behavior is a well known indication of a person who is very manipulative, controlling and possibly abusive. Get her information about the warning signs of an abusive man and then discuss it with her. She might not listen but if you simply attack him she will feel the need to defend him instead of taking a hard look at the relationship.

[rayroe2]

 If that is a friend I would tell her! like why would she even want a long distance relationship? I would deff help or friend out she my not like it but later on she will see yu were really trying to help her