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Safer Birth in a Barn?

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Safer Birth in a Barn?

by Beth Barbeau

[Editor's note: This article first appeared in Midwifery Today Issue 83, Autumn 2007.]

Our deeper understandings of birth can come to us from the most unexpected sources and at the most unanticipated times. One of my most visceral “light-bulb” experiences came in New Mexico in the early 1990s when I was taking a break from midwifery and selling health insurance to self-employed individuals.

One day I drove several hours to meet with the general manager of an immense horse farm, hoping to sell a large policy to cover his many farm hands. I ended up wandering through some of the buildings, searching for my appointment. I mentally noted as I passed that one of the stalls exuded energy that felt like birth. Peeking in, I found a swollen mare pacing restlessly in the afternoon quiet, deeply breathing and blowing.

We were in the middle of the insurance presentation about an hour later when an assistant breathlessly burst in, saying that “so and so” was foaling! The manager stood up immediately and said, “Do you want to see a foal born?” He was startled when I asked if it was the mare I had glimpsed earlier. When I shared that I had trained as a midwife and it just “felt and smelled of birth,” he brightened and lost his taciturn ways, suddenly eager to talk about what he loved.

Until the next few minutes I did not fully understand that I was in a very unusual place: a stud farm for some of the most valuable horses in the world. This particular unborn foal was worth about three million dollars and was expected to be of much greater value after birth because it shared lineage with two Triple Crown winners. The horseman explained what I was about to see as we hurried over. He was adamant about his instructions, stressing the careful attention to detail needed to protect the well-being of this babe of breath-taking value.

“Don’t let the mare see you; crouch here in the hallway where you can peek over the half wall of the foaling box—the stress of seeing strangers at this time could put the foal in danger!”

“The only person allowed near the mare is her familiar stable lad; even her vet is crouched as small as possible in the corner.” (And he was, hunched on his heels, silent and still, head and eyes downcast.)

“We keep the lights dimmed, because bright lights agitate and distract the laboring mare.”

“You’ll see that we’ve removed her halter and lead—you would never restrict the movement of a birthing mare; foals have been lost for less! She must be free to move any way she wants.”

“She’s been in this box stall (when not out to pasture) for weeks, because she must be in a familiar environment to birth smoothly.”

“There is her usual water and hay in the stall—never restrict their food in labor!”

“Don’t say a word. Any sound might disrupt the birth and a disruption puts the foal in danger.”

With these admonishments ringing in my ears, I crouched in the dim, silent passageway outside the birthing box with several others. We watched the mare birth a huge colt with grace, barely pausing in her pacing as he slid with a thump to the floor. All was quiet and still in the long minutes afterwards as the colt organized his breathing, gathered himself and finally staggered up. He was so unusually large and long-legged that he stood on his ankles, his cartilage too soft to support his weight. Still, the horseman was elated with the outcome, passing off the odd and worrisome appearance with a “give him time, he’ll work it out!”

Ironic, isn’t it? The protocols in the world of animal husbandry to protect an offspring at the time of birth—no strangers, dimmed lights, freedom of movement, familiar environment, unlimited nourishment, respectful quiet, no disruptions—are done without hesitation because to do otherwise invites “unexplained distress” or sudden demise of the offspring. These thoughtful conditions are the norm, along with careful observation to determine when to use the technological expertise in true emergencies. When we have veterinarians in our childbirth education classes, they always start to smile and nod when I tell this story. In fact, what did your mom tell you when you found the cat birthing kittens in the drawer? “Shhhhhhh!” And why? Because she MIGHT STOP GIVING BIRTH (AND move the kittens!). These are givens—instinctive givens, even, for animals of all descriptions!

Yet what are the “givens” for the human who births not in a barn, but in a “modern and advanced” hospital? In many cases, 100% the opposite! Usually a minimum of a dozen strangers pass through the world of the laboring mother in her first 12 hours in the hospital—security officer, patient transporter, triage secretary, admission clerk, triage nurse, resident and/or doctor on call, admitting nurse, first shift nurse, break nurse, additional nurse at delivery, doctor or midwife plus possibly students, anesthesiologist, pediatrician, etc. Bright lights in the triage and labor rooms are challenging to dim. Mothers are tethered to monitors or IV poles and are moved through a bright hall with unfamiliar sounds to a new room in a building devoted to illness/trauma that most have visited once briefly if at all. They receive poor quality “clear liquids only.” They are exposed to voices of others in the hall or chatting by the attendants during contractions and endless disruptions throughout! But then, do we ever find that we have an offspring experience “unexplained distress?” Of course, and at frightening rates! Yet, oddly, many of these disruptions are promoted as minor inconveniences or necessary to “protect” the baby.

Curiously, while veterinarians commonly have to defend interventions in light of the additional cost and the risks associated with interfering with nature, providers caring for human mothers within the medical system more commonly are forced to defend why they did NOT intervene! Consider the high rates of inductions, epidurals, artificial rupture of membranes, immediate cord cutting, cesareans and the vigorous defense necessary to fight for anything different, especially if time is involved (time to go into labor, to progress, to push, to allow the cord to stop pulsation or to get “done” bonding). I’ve recently seen outstanding CNMs and obstetricians sacrifice their own political reputations and suffer departmental reprimands for births with great outcomes where they protected the mothers’ yearning for privacy, allowed extended pushing time with great vital signs or, during a healthy normal birth, followed their intuition and honored the mother’s begging to check heart tones frequently by hand during pushing instead of what the mother considered the massive intrusion of wearing the monitor belt. Interventions are considered to be the ultimate protection from litigation in human care, yet they contribute mightily to the high rates of distress in mothers and babies!

In animal husbandry, the first line of defense for protecting the unborn is to protect and nurture the nutritional needs and comfort of the birthing female. In the case of institutionalized birth for humans, however, in spite of evidence to the contrary, the norm is to act as if the nutritional needs and the comfort of the birthing mothers are of concern to, at most, the marketing and public relations department! It’s an affront to common sense that as a society we are currently more accepting of the needs of foaling mares, whelping poodles and high-producing cows than of our birthing humans. From the high rates of fetal distress, meconium staining and breastfeeding problems, the consequences are clearly devastating to our infants, just as any decent horseman would predict.

Beth Barbeau, midwife and educator, began attending homebirths in 1979 as the 16-year-old babysitter for the “big kids.” She has taught Childbirth Education classes for over 25 years, and recently launched “A New Baby in the House” to meet the unique needs of adopting parents. A life-long interest in providing better support and resources to families after the six week visit led Beth this spring to open Indigo Forest Co.: Growing Healthy Lives, a family-focused store and studio in Ann Arbor, Michigan. She and her stunt choreographer husband, Christopher, are parents to two homebirthed boys, Jianmarco (7) and Marcellin (5).


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mspuscifer
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:57 PM

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 

louzannalady
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:59 PM
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You made me laugh so hard, I woke my DS, who is nursing! LOL! 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 


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kansasmom1978
by Katie on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:05 PM

Awesome Read!  I would rather have birthed in barn than been poked and prodded and fondled by tons of ppl. You know when you labor 33 hours, that is almost 4 shift changes and that means a new nurse. UGH

mspuscifer
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:06 PM

Sorry! =)  I wish it wasn't true. My hubby was open to the idea of a homebirth last time, then we found out we were having twins. After 3 days of drug-free labor, his mom constantly "checking" on me, an emergency c-section, and hemmoraging, he's not so into it for our next one. 

Quoting louzannalady:

You made me laugh so hard, I woke my DS, who is nursing! LOL! 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 



louzannalady
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:13 PM

Oh, I hear ya! I had 56 hours of labor, myself! I only read this article after the fact. Yeah... It struck a cord or two

Quoting kansasmom1978:

Awesome Read!  I would rather have birthed in barn than been poked and prodded and fondled by tons of ppl. You know when you labor 33 hours, that is almost 4 shift changes and that means a new nurse. UGH


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louzannalady
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:15 PM

Awww... I am so sorry to hear all of that! I did 45 of my 56 hours of labor drug free. You are awesome to go through so much! I wish my next could be a home birth, but we can't afford it. I will be in a hospital birthing center, with a midwife and laboring balls and water births. I am hoping this time will be different. 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Sorry! =)  I wish it wasn't true. My hubby was open to the idea of a homebirth last time, then we found out we were having twins. After 3 days of drug-free labor, his mom constantly "checking" on me, an emergency c-section, and hemmoraging, he's not so into it for our next one. 

Quoting louzannalady:

You made me laugh so hard, I woke my DS, who is nursing! LOL! 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 




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mspuscifer
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:20 PM

Oh no, it was a learning experience. I swear though, it's like I wouldn't dialate because I was sure she'd show up, which she did.... I appreciated her concern, but seriously. I think my hubby might meet me halfway and be open to the idea of a birthing center about an hour away. I just need to make sure when I go into labor to bring my MIL in the car so I don't dialate before we get there. =)

Quoting louzannalady:

Awww... I am so sorry to hear all of that! I did 45 of my 56 hours of labor drug free. You are awesome to go through so much! I wish my next could be a home birth, but we can't afford it. I will be in a hospital birthing center, with a midwife and laboring balls and water births. I am hoping this time will be different. 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Sorry! =)  I wish it wasn't true. My hubby was open to the idea of a homebirth last time, then we found out we were having twins. After 3 days of drug-free labor, his mom constantly "checking" on me, an emergency c-section, and hemmoraging, he's not so into it for our next one. 

Quoting louzannalady:

You made me laugh so hard, I woke my DS, who is nursing! LOL! 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 





louzannalady
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:22 PM
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I really like your sense of humor! : ) I wish you the very best! You deserve it! : ) 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Oh no, it was a learning experience. I swear though, it's like I wouldn't dialate because I was sure she'd show up, which she did.... I appreciated her concern, but seriously. I think my hubby might meet me halfway and be open to the idea of a birthing center about an hour away. I just need to make sure when I go into labor to bring my MIL in the car so I don't dialate before we get there. =)

Quoting louzannalady:

Awww... I am so sorry to hear all of that! I did 45 of my 56 hours of labor drug free. You are awesome to go through so much! I wish my next could be a home birth, but we can't afford it. I will be in a hospital birthing center, with a midwife and laboring balls and water births. I am hoping this time will be different. 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Sorry! =)  I wish it wasn't true. My hubby was open to the idea of a homebirth last time, then we found out we were having twins. After 3 days of drug-free labor, his mom constantly "checking" on me, an emergency c-section, and hemmoraging, he's not so into it for our next one. 

Quoting louzannalady:

You made me laugh so hard, I woke my DS, who is nursing! LOL! 

Quoting mspuscifer:

Fantastic Read! And if I was to birth in a barn, I'd have less of a chance of my MIL bursting in to draw blood.... lucky me she works at the local hospital.  This is exactly why I'd like my next birth to be at home. 






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by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 6:24 PM
Good story, but in the hospital I ate what I wanted, moved as I wanted, was not strapped to anything. There was one nurse and my midwife
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