are u getting married?

[Earth_Mama90]

If u are or think u will in the future here is my advice take time to chose your bridal party.

The end

[ctfirsttimemom]

nope!  but I have been for almost 6 years.  I totally agree with your advice!

[Earth_Mama90]

I chose mine the minute I got engaged I 100 percent feel like I made wrong choses

Quoting ctfirsttimemom:

nope!  but I have been for almost 6 years.  I totally agree with your advice!

[futureshock]

lol

So what went wrong?

[Billsbabygirl]

Lol my bridal party was my dhs ex wife as my moh and then his daughter and my daughter. pretty simple actually.

[ctfirsttimemom]

Mine were great... I had 2.  Then they decided they were at war, started emailing each other horrible things with all my friends on the email (reply all from bachelorette party emails), and both called me in tears the week going into my shower about how mean the other one was. 

Since I got married, one of them "broke up with me."  When we were in hs and college she was always the one with the boyfriend, suddenly I was the one married and she had just dumped her boyfriend.  Now I have 2 kids, been married 6 years, and she is still single.  I had no idea she was even upset about it, she always said she didn't want kids, and basically told me my husband didn't meet her standards (pretty sure no man alive does)  She just stopped talking to me and I finally pieced it together, mainly from her facebook statuses!  So mad she wouldn't talk to me after we've been friends since kindergarten!

Quoting Earth_Mama90:

I chose mine the minute I got engaged I 100 percent feel like I made wrong choses

Quoting ctfirsttimemom:

nope!  but I have been for almost 6 years.  I totally agree with your advice!

[Mandiii04]

My MOH is my younger future step daughter. Since I'm likely doing JOP, she will be a witness.

[autumns_mom22]

August 25th. And I didn't need to think about mine. It's my two sisters and my youngest sisters friend. She's like a part of the family.

[ShesALady]

I picked all family. My sister, SIL and two cousins. We are all very close. My DH took LOTS of time. It was about 3 months before our wedding he finally asked his last groomsman and we were engaged for a year and 4 months lol

[SP_Mama]

Had my SIL as my matron of honor and my BIL was best man...no regrets except for I wish I could have had my sisters in my wedding but I didn't know they were coming in from out of state.  They surprised me.

[cbell918]

We kept it simple... It was just me and dh!