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I gaved my daughter away to be happy

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:11 PM
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SO my friends sister had this beautiful baby girl and was a single mom for a year until she meet this guy that wanted to marry her so she just abonded her 1 year old daughter with her mom and never told the guy she had a daughter. Shes know married with two boys and her daughter knows her as her sister not as mom. Thats realy crazy I would never think of doing something like that it breaks my heart
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LilithofEden
by Poison Apple on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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Its probably better for the baby if the mom is like that
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Jennifer_236
by Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:13 PM

Poor little girl, I would never do that

kolbiesmommy
by Silver Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:14 PM
This will have major repercussions when she finds out who she really is. My brother would tell you so.
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marinesweetie
by Silver Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:14 PM
Oh wow.. Thats selfish on the moms part... Poor kid :-(
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proudmommy690
by Platinum Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:15 PM
sounds like whats best for the little girl..but thats really screwed up she'd do that!! uggg
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ShesALady
by Silver Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:15 PM
:(
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alreadydidthis
by Silver Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:15 PM
This


Quoting LilithofEden:

Its probably better for the baby if the mom is like that

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kikibix
by Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:16 PM

Secrets are never good.  Does the husband know she did this?  I'd have a hard time parenting with someone only to find out they abandoned a child earlier.  It's one thing to give up a child for adoption but quite another to give away a child after a year when they get inconvenient!

WrapNLoseInches
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:16 PM

 sounds screwed up.. however, there may be more to the situation than meets the eye...

 

ForeverInLove
by Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 8:16 PM

It's what happened to my mother in law in a sorts...

Her mother left her with her grandparents for months on end, and never came back for her. They filed for adoption and her biological mother lost rights (she didn't care, she didn't want my mil)... funny part is, they forgot to send in a certain part of the papers, so the adoption was never actually legal...

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