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Yup, I am handicapped and you are a BIT$H!!!!!!

Posted by

momof2little1s

on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:37 PM

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I have severe chronic lung disease, several neurological conditions, and other health issues.

I do not look disabled, until I walk for a bit struggle to breathe, and/or start limping.

I just got my Handicap Parking Placard and it has been amazing. Now, when I go somewhere, I am not exhausted by the time I get in fom the parking lot.

Since getting the HP placard, I have gotten such nasty comments and rolls of the eyes cus I do not "look" disabled. I always think of a witty come back after the person is gone. But, I finally got a good zinger back.

I threw nasty comeback at the woman who was complaining about my handicap placard...........
So, as I got out of my car, a woman leaving Big Y loudly yelled

"You sure do not look like you are handicapped!"

So I yelled back,

" Well, you sure do not look like a bitch, but you obviously are, so i guess looks are deceiving!". She looked shocked and walked away without another word!!!! Hopefully she I'll think twice before she judges again!

I am so sick of this......I am done being nice.....I am coming up with a list of quick come backs to pull out! Everyone better watch out when they see me in a parking lot!!! :-)

I am Kelly, 32 yr old Mom of 4 Girls! Caitlin 7 yrs, Lilly 5 yrs, Molly 2 yr. and my angel Elysse born 2/05/08, married to my husband Jeff for 7 yrs,I am a domestic violence survivor,infant loss survivor, swine flu medically induced coma survivor, an attatchment parenting momma, non CIO momma, mom of an awesome daughter with autism, I have multible life long disabilities but am determined to not let them stop me,My husband and girls are my
everything and I live for them! =-)That is me in a nutshell!

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momof2little1s

on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:37 PM

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shelby63

on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:38 PM

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Good job mama you don't have to take that from anyone

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meglennox

Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:38 PM

Lol nice ;)

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momo3fgr8tteens

on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:39 PM

Like!

bec94

Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:40 PM

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Good comeback! :-) You have the card, no need to explain yourself.

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Mommy2ZOEBETH

M2ZB on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:40 PM

Awesome!

BamaMommy2

~~Shannon~~ on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:41 PM

1 mom liked this

Awesome! I don't know why the hell some people are SO quick to judge others...smh!

cherib82

post killer on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:42 PM

Nice one

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momof2little1s

Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:42 PM

Quoting bec94:

Good comeback! :-) You have the card, no need to explain yourself.

Thanks!!! It felt good to feel like I put her in my place instead of being tears eyed by the time I get to the store, like ussually happens.

nicole9211

on Feb. 16, 2012 at 9:42 PM

i absolutely LOVE that response to her. way to go for sticking up for yourself to a random stranger! people suck when it comes to their impulses/urges to say something.