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Mom Says Five-Year-Old Son Raped by Classmate at School

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 7:57 AM
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 COLUMBUS COUNTY, NC -- A Tabor City mom says her five-year-old son was raped at school. But it's who she says attacked the boy that you just won't believe.

Sherri Loika says her son was sodomized in a restroom at Tabor City Elementary School by a five-year-old classmate. She found out the night it happened after his teacher called.

"She told me that the boys were taking a long time in the bathroom, so she went in to hurry them along, and that's when she noticed another boy's penis was on my son's leg," Loika said.

But that wasn't all. When Loika asked her son what happened, he says a different boy raped him.

A doctor examined her son, but Loika says there was no physical tearing or scrapes because of the boys' ages and their physical development. Wednesday, she says a psychologist confirmed her fear.

"Most kids, she said walk in there and give her short yes or no answers," Loika said. "He spelled out exactly what happened to him and drew pictures of it. She told me there's no doubt in her mind that this incident did occur with him."

Since the attack, Loika says her son lays in bed in every morning refusing to go to school.

"He used to get up every morning before the alarm clock would go off and get his clothes on, and he would be ready to go to school," she said. "Now, all he wants to do is lay there. He doesn't want to go there."

Loika claims the school threatened her son with truancy for staying home, even though the school would not remove him from the same class as his alleged attacker. Loika says Superintendent Alan Faulk called her today, finally agreeing to transfer her son to another school. Faulk did not want to comment because of sensitivity of the situation.

Loika showed us a letter from DSS and the investigation report from the Columbus County Sheriff's Office. Both said nothing could be done about the situation and the investigation has been closed. Under state law a child under six cannot be held criminally liable.

"Nobody is trying to investigate anything," Loika said. "They're trying to throw their hands up, throw it under the rug like it never even happened."

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 7:57 AM
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Miss_MikLain
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:00 AM
That's ridiculous! She didn't want the kid thrown in jail. She wanted her son in a different class! That's not unreasonable! And I feel sorry for the other boy too because THAT is a LEARNED behavior! Someone had to teach him that and that should be investigated as well! Poor families!
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celestegood
by Platinum Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:00 AM

 Wow, very scary.  I would hope this would at least remain in this other child's files for when he gets older, as he has done this before.

It makes me sad....what has been done to him for him to do this?

river.red
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:02 AM
This is hard to fathom. The school should have done more. The boys that attacked him need counseling and it sounds likely that one of the boys was probably molested. Wtf is going on with kids these days :(
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beerebelly
by Daves.wife.Stacey on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:02 AM

 I think it absurd the school would not switch the boys class.

wickedfiress
by SmthngWkdThsWayComes on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:02 AM
Aw. I hope they catch the bastard molesting that kid!
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lil_Army_Wife05
by Platinum Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:04 AM

OMG! I would be going after the and the parents of the child who raped my child...I would also be trying to change that law!

gotnothinonme
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:04 AM

And they just think a five year old learned this on his own? I hope they're investigating the assailants background, and I'm so sorry for the little boy that was the victim...this mother must be beside herself with frustration and heartache for her child.

CABZS
by Ruby Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:04 AM
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That is disgusting and the parents should be held accountable!

I think she needs to find a lawyer and find her options.

The boys that did this should be suspended or expelled, what happened to zero tolerance!

And the school didn't call right away, that would have me after the school!

Yup she needs to find a lawyer, I would not let this go!

Poor child, I pray she keeps him in counseling and I pray he can overcome this and be stronger for this!
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Taterstots3
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:05 AM
The attacker had to see that to even know what to do. So sad. I cant believe the investigation is closed. The parents should be investigated. Poor kids.
kbank67
by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 8:06 AM
That is so damn sad., I mean honestly.!!!! I'm sick to my stomach about this.
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