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Past loves...........

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:28 AM
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Has any one ever ran into or reconected with an ex & thought to them selves yup it was the right deaision for us to split. Or have you ever thought the oposite & wondered why you ever split up to begin with?

I have an ex feom high school & we have been friends now for a very long time but every time we talk or see each other its like that song unanswered prayers. Just wondering if any one else has gone through this?
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touchingstars
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:30 AM
My ex husband.... Ima dance on that grave when he dies.

Everyone else we left for better possibilites
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chickychatter
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:31 AM

I think I must be an exception because I don't have any past loves or boyfriends. I didn't date much. I got married at 20 and have been married 21 years. 

malissaL
by Malissa on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:33 AM

my ex--I look at him and know in my heart that it was DEFINITELY the drugs I was on then lmaooo...

my DH...we had so much chemistry in high school, and when I ran into him 10 years after, it was instant attraction..we picked up right where we left off and now we are happily married <3

barrelracer1699
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:33 AM

I have 1 ex that I am friends with. I always think what if when I see him or talk to him. But I am married and he is now engaged and I am very happy for him. If I can't have him anymore I want him happy!

alwaystheresa
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:34 AM

 Yes, my best friend. we have been friends for over 20 years. He wanted to start dating back in high school and I told him that I valued our friendship way to much. Even though it was what everyone thought would happen. If we had dated I prob would have like five kids by now. lol. But Having DH and DD I would not have changed a thing. And My BFF dotes on my little girl like nothing else.

Miss_MikLain
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:34 AM
Oh I have so been the latter! The guy I loved in HS...still makes my heart flutter...but it feels like I'm 15 not 23 lol I feel weak and stupid and he's a boderline loser now...my DF makes my heart stop. :D
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P.V.Hawkwind
by Awesome Sauce on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:34 AM
Yes all the time lol I dated a lot of losers.
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StormiAnn
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:35 AM
Yep! I reconnected with my high school sweetheart over a year ago- he's worse now than he was then! It didnt take me long to remember why we didnt work out as teens and that there was no chance as adults.
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sissyboogs
by Katie on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:37 AM

I could probably feel one of those two ways if I knew why we broke up to begin with. Not having closure drives me crazy. 6 years later, and he still insists I should know what happened. I really don't. One day, he just told me he didn't love me, never did, and that was the end of that. 

CookieMom108
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:39 AM

 Yep.  I let my highschool sweetheart get away because I was young and foolish.  I hurt him so bad, and he was such a great guy and I live with that guilt to this day.  I love my husband very much and have been happily married for 10 years, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't think about that ex sometimes.  There were plenty of guys between breaking up with him and meeting my husband, but none that I still think about.  He's married too and has 4 kids and seems happy and I'm happy for him, I just wonder what could've been.....

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