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Oh Gosh I did it! I'm ok.... I think...?

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:38 AM
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 So. My bf (not my BD, butI consider a father to my son ) has always asked to have my son on days that I am working and he is off! he considers these days as Father son days! I get great pics throughout the day, park, hiking, bike rides, craft stuff, everything. My son is only 16 months old. And yesterday my BF asked for max as usual, but today he is going to Bisbee, AZ (with his mother, love her) bisbee is 4 hrs away from me in Phoenix, This would be a day trip. Leave at 6 and My son will be home at 11pm. This is the longest my son will be away from me since birth. LOL I admit I am nervous but I know he is in great care with my bf and his mother. I guess I just dont like that he is so far away.  But i let him go cuz I asked my son if he wanted to go with my bf, and he knew that because my bf showed up early in the morning that it was a daddy and son day, and jumped to him!  So I let him go, I just know this will be a long day for me. but I know he will have fun and is safe. :D

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P.V.Hawkwind
by Awesome Sauce on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:39 AM
Idk if you feel ok with it then do it.
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sissyboogs
by Katie on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:41 AM

I think it is absolutely awesome that your bf is taking on the responsibility of "daddy" AND that he is making your son very happy. Just proves that you don't have to give part of your DNA to be "daddy" (or "mommy" for that matter). 

I hope they have a wonderful time! Try not to stress too much! 

maximami
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:41 AM

I did do it, They are half way to bisbee right now, My bf called to let me know they were half way there and that they stopped at a deer farm and My son pet the deers

Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

Idk if you feel ok with it then do it.


maximami
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:44 AM

Oh yes my bf and I started dating when I was 6months preggers and he has been there for Ds and I ever since, We are his family! I totally love this man. He is great with ds.

just kepping busy so no stressing! ;D

Quoting sissyboogs:

I think it is absolutely awesome that your bf is taking on the responsibility of "daddy" AND that he is making your son very happy. Just proves that you don't have to give part of your DNA to be "daddy" (or "mommy" for that matter). 

I hope they have a wonderful time! Try not to stress too much! 


LittleLinda3181
by New Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:44 AM

He sounds like a great guy...  You need to thank him properly...  ;-)

oceandancer
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:49 AM
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Quoting sissyboogs:

I think it is absolutely awesome that your bf is taking on the responsibility of "daddy" AND that he is making your son very happy. Just proves that you don't have to give part of your DNA to be "daddy" (or "mommy" for that matter). 

I hope they have a wonderful time! Try not to stress too much! 


nicely said
maximami
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 9:55 AM

lol Thankk  him properly, probably a date night! My bf still carries a Vcard and wants to keep it for a while. so DAte night sounds good! lol


 

Quoting LittleLinda3181:

He sounds like a great guy...  You need to thank him properly...  ;-)


sissyboogs
by Katie on Feb. 17, 2012 at 10:07 AM

Wow. How old is he? And you guys have been together for almost 2 years? That's great...almost unheard of these days, especially for a man. (I hope that doesn't sound rude, lol)

Quoting maximami:

lol Thankk  him properly, probably a date night! My bf still carries a Vcard and wants to keep it for a while. so DAte night sounds good! lol


 

Quoting LittleLinda3181:

He sounds like a great guy...  You need to thank him properly...  ;-)



TexasWife
by Mellow on Feb. 17, 2012 at 10:10 AM
This sounds like an amazing guy!
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maximami
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 10:15 AM

28, Its  cuz of his religion and belief. Its definately interesting since he is dating me and has a family!

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