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I dont know what to do and I am loosing it, somebody please talk to me.

Posted by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:34 AM
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 I just split up with my husband.  I mean I left about a month ago and we have been talking etc and IDK.  He was abusive, he was an asshole and I should be glad to be rid of him.  I just found him on a online dating site.  IDK what to do about it, but we arent even legally seperated.  WTF?  This has just sent me into a tail spin.  I am extremely hurt and sad.  I also have anxiety and I am shaking so bad I can litterally hardly type this.  Someone please help, talk to me soemthing.  Please dont be mean or rude bc my nerves cany handle it at this point.  I cant stop crying.  I have no one I can call or anything.

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jess227ny
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:35 AM
Ok first take a deep breath as hard and uncomfortable as it might be....
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wodntulk2kno1
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:36 AM
deep breathe and just remember all the reasons you left in the first place. you will get through this
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jess227ny
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:36 AM
Remember....this too shall pass its just feeling...a yucky feeling but a feeling none the less....it's the story you are telling yourself that hurts ....not good enough, not worthy of him, etcccc all not true....
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jess227ny
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM
Now just like pp said remember all the pain he has caused you....this is a blessing to be free....see the positive in this painful moment as hard as that might be...
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SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM
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Have you ever tried meditation? If yes, this would be a good time to start. Im sorry
Mandiii04
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM
It's hard to see someone that you thought you loved/loved you with someone else. Just take comfort in knowing that you made the right choice.
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stinkerbelle28
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM

 i just cant believe he is trying to find a woman right now.  he is such a douche.  i know we are seperated, but wtf?

jess227ny
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM
You are free....a free bird focus on all you can do now that you are free from him and his bs....good luck hope that helps a bit :)
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acaisha
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:39 AM

if he is abusive and an asshole take it as a sign .. worry for the next girl he traps and be happy you know

MsKristinB
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 2:39 AM

ouch.  sorry mama. just breathe and try to stay relaxed, focus on the good things.  :)

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