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If you have facebook and decide to unfriend someone do you let them know why you are doing it first or just unfriend them without explaining

Posted by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:48 PM
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I have a friend of a few decades and she is someone I held dear to my heart and was the only friend who was really,truly there during the loss of her dd. Yet she never calls and on Facebook she is all over everyone else's "wall" saying this and that, being all "outgoing and friendly" ...it really hurt's because I'm 4 hours away all alone and  there she is doing her best to communicate with other mutual friends and yet she ignores me. So I  unfriended her because it was better to have her not be my friend then it was to see her "activity" with everyone else. Guess it boils down to feeling alone and not wanting any more hurt...thought about even just cancelling Facebook because it causes more hurt then it's worth

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stockuponlove
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:49 PM
Just unfriend. I delete my fb when my blocked list became bigger than my friends list
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alotleft2do
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:50 PM

Deep down i feel like I should message her and explain my hurt, since I have been there for her ... looking back she has not been as interested in my life....so I feel like I owe an explaination or maybe not...

goodmama85
by Platinum Member on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:51 PM
Yep just unfriend and keep it moving
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black.eyeliner
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:52 PM
They can figure it out on their own.
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mymuneca
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:53 PM
I don't feel I owe anyone any explanation when it comes to FB. Now if I have an issue with a true friend then chances are I would address it.
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mes_deux_amours
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 PM

LOL

No, when I unfriend I just unfriend. I don't even block.

snowpeasmom
by Long legged mama on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 PM
I only delete strangers when I stopped playing games on fb. No I didn't post.
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annaica
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 PM
I would explain
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jarji
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 PM

I just unfriend. 

RGladson
by on Mar. 12, 2012 at 10:54 PM
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Yeah. I just unfriend. It's pretty self explanatory if there's never any communication.
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