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Knowingly spread HPV is this ok?

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:24 PM
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I was just talking to my friend who is single with no children. She started seeing this guy and had unprotected sex with him. I know she found out awhile back after an abnormal pap smear that she has hpv. I asked if she told this guy and she said no that she was not ready to tell him. She acted like its no big deal. She's a nurse and she said it's not serious and that her obgyn assured her of that. I would still be mad though if I were this guy. She knew this and to me should of told him. She may not think it's serious, but to me it should be this guy's choice whether he puts himself at risk of contracting an STD from her. She said she's more worried about getting pregnant than spreading hpv to this guy. I'm floored. I would be upset if I were him or if that happened to me. I just can not believe she didn't tell this guy. I'd be upset if I were him. What do you ladies think?
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:24 PM
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Heath77
by Bronze Member on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:32 PM
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mama_cullum
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:33 PM
No it's not ok.
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Tatumsmommy0123
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:33 PM
That's very selfish of her. Not only can she spread it to him, but also to any partners he has in the future.
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anotherhalf
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:34 PM
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I think your friend is selfish and hope he finds out her true colors soon.
metalhealthmom
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:34 PM
I can't see how it would be okay
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momma-flynn
by ♥Gee Willickers♥ on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:35 PM
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That is not ok. Tell her karma's a bitch.
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Mama2ETA
by Gold Member on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:35 PM

I would have told her that it's the same in comparison to sleeping with someone and keeping that you have herpes from them.

WesAndNicksMom
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:35 PM

How long ago did she they tell her she had it?  It normally goes away on it's own so if she had a normal pap after that one she's ok.

WesAndNicksMom
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:36 PM


Quoting Mama2ETA:

I would have told her that it's the same in comparison to sleeping with someone and keeping that you have herpes from them.

definitely not.  herpes is forever lol.


mama_cullum
by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 11:36 PM
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Oh there is a case where a man knowingly spread HIV to women and got like prison time for it.
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