I was at DS's (6) craft club at the library today. My four yo is playing on one of the two computers and I see my two year old son watching the little boy playing on the other one. I am sitting about 20ft away on the couches. I see DS#3 (2yo) and another boy, 6 or 7yo, leap for the computer at the same time when the other boy got off and then I hear "Owww! Whaaa." The six yo is fake screaming crying so I rush over there and my two year old is hiding on a book shelf. This little boys dad, at least twice my size and looking very much like a biker guy, gets right next to me going, "He punched him. Look! His lip is bleeding. He hit my son. You're a bad boy!" I look at the other little boy, give him a sympathetic, "Oh, I'm sorry sweetie," and grab my son. The dad proceeds with his rant, "You better be thankful his Mom's not here." And then he says to his son, "Next time, you punch him." I was literally floored, completely flabbergasted. My son is TWO and your son is AT LEAST 6 or 7. I walked back to my little group holding my son and completely shocked at what just happened.
Now, I have three boys and we have our share of bloody lips. This little boy's lip was not split open gushing blood, but it was bleeding. My 2yo did not do this maliciously. If it had of been reversed I would of walked over, waiting for the "sorry" and left it at that. I just don't get worked up over these things. They're kids and it wasn't malicious. But this guy was totally on me instantly. I think he overreacted, but what should have been done??