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Would you let your DD spend the night at a friends if...

Posted by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:05 AM
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Heres the senario...

-DD is 12 almost 13

-I was on her FB and reading her comments from her friends and her (it was a IM conversation) and her friend was telling DD that this boy asked her if she was a virgin.  The girl said yes.  The boy asked if he could take it, the girl said yes.

-DD said "I dont know what to say to that".  Then she called her friend to let her know that her parents read her messages so her friend wrote on there " Hi DDs parents I am a really nice sweat girl"


DD was planing on staying the night with her on Fri and they were going to the mall on Sat.  I know DD didnt say anything bad but SHE knows we read it so she wont.  We have had issues with DD talking dirty on FB with a boy.  She JUST got FB back after it being gone for months.

What would you?


BTW DD knows we read everything because she knows thats the only way she can have FB.

by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:05 AM
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momdoes
by Platinum Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:07 AM

I feel for you. Only thing I can say is trust your child. Educate her tremendously on sex, FB rules and other things. If she knows what you know, she will do what you would.

shadow_lark
by Gold Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:07 AM
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I wouldn't let her go. I don't want my dd hanging around with someone who is acting like that at that age.
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luvmykids08_10
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:07 AM
I would let her go. But dh wouldn't which means no she wouldn't be going to spend the night. And he WILL be dropping both of them at the mall.
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cherrywaves21
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:08 AM
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If your has a history of talking dirty then no I wouldn't let her go. That's the type of girl she shouldn't be around. Since she's been in trouble before c
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Gabbysmom715
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:08 AM
I wouldn't because that girl just told a boy he could have sex with your dd.
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starreyedcutie
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:10 AM
Uh definatly not. But that's just me
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chickita2009
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:12 AM
The other girl is going to have sex! Not dd!


Quoting Gabbysmom715:

I wouldn't because that girl just told a boy he could have sex with your dd.

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JADIEBUG
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:12 AM

Not in a million years.

mommyof3-2008
by Silver Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:13 AM

not with my Dd.  With DDs friend.  DD said she didnt know what to say.  DDs friend is open to having sex with this boy

Quoting Gabbysmom715:

I wouldn't because that girl just told a boy he could have sex with your dd.


KimmyShaw
by Ruby Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 10:15 AM

I agree with this...

Quoting cherrywaves21:

If your has a history of talking dirty then no I wouldn't let her go. That's the type of girl she shouldn't be around. Since she's been in trouble before c


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