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do you let your dd wear a Bikini **made links clickable**edit pic of what we got on pg 19

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Question: which swimsuit for 4 yr old dd

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We are getting a swmming pool for the back yard so would you get a bikini or a tankini for your 4 yr old daughter? it will only be used for swimming in the back yard not at public pools and theres no beach around

dd liked these ones

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Op-Girls-Cherry-Garcia-2-Piece-Halter-Tankini/19397520

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Op-Girls-Almost-Famous-2-Piece-Suimsuit/19397602

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Op-Girls-Going-Wild-2-Piece-Suimsuit/19398799

http://www.walmart.com/ip/Op-Girls-Sugar-Pop-2-Piece-Halter-Bikini/19407236

by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 7:14 PM
Replies (61-70):
Mrs.Velasquez
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:33 PM
No. I just don't like it. Dd #1 has always worn the two pieces,but the ones that don't show her belly or anything.
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DropZoneMom
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:33 PM

No -- your young daughter's aren't trying to attract men.   But by putting them in bikinis (especially the 12YO) that's EXACTLY what you're doing -- fulfilling every pedophile's dream at the beach.   Good move, 'mom'.

Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Right. So my 12yo, 8yo, and 4yo are trying to attract men? I've been wearing a bikini since before I could walk, and it's never been about attracting men. Have you ever tried to put a wet one-piece back on a toddler after a potty run?

Quoting DropZoneMom:

For more 'mature' women -- okay, I'll buy that.   But for any girl under 25?   It's about attracting the attention of men.


Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

For many, like myself, it is a comfort issue. One-piece suits are uncomfortable to me. They always ride up and I don't feel like pulling wedgies out all day.



Quoting DropZoneMom:

Oh, REALLY???   Then what exactly IS the goal??



Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Lol @ the goal of a bikini being to attract men. That's such a load of bs.





Quoting DropZoneMom:

NO -- I would not put a 4-year-old in a bikini.   Partly because I don't think they're appropriate (what is the goal of a bikini?  To attract the attention of men).   YES -- I understand that she'll only be swimming in a backyard pool.

But she also doesn't need that much skin exposed to the sun.   The incidences of skin cancer -- and deadly melanoma -- have been on the rise for years.   WHY would you take any more risks than necessary??   A tankini isn't going to take away from her enjoyment of the pool.  It will also be easier to say "no" to a bikini when she's a blossoming 13-year-old.   (Mine is okay with not being 'allowed' to wear one till she's 16).

There is no good reason to wear a bikini.  And several good reasons NOT to.




MamaPeanut
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:34 PM
No
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kimikylemama
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:34 PM

my daughter has always worn a bikini.  She will be 5 in august.


EmilyMarshall
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:34 PM
No bikinis


TheMrs407
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:35 PM

Really?....


Quoting mcr17:

i dont care where the kids wearing it. and i talked about what im doing, if she wants her kid to look trampy at that age, no matter where she is, then she can go right ahead. i have better sense as a parent to realize that bikinis are for adults, not children.

Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Newsflash. A pedophile who likes little girls will "whack off", as you put, to a kid in a frickin' snowsuit if he/she thinks the kid is cute. They don't need to see skin to get aroused.

The OP said it was for a backyard pool. How many pedophiles do YOU have in YOUR backyard?


Quoting mcr17:

my daughter WILL NOT have a bikini, if i have my way EVER a pedophile that likes little girls isnt going to care if they are developed enough to show something off in a bikini, it still arouses them. im not about to let my child be a memory for some sick fuck to whack off to later.



mcr17
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:36 PM

have you even see toddlers and tiaras? yes a child can look trampy.

and dont fucking compare me to pedophile

Quoting Paperfishies:

First of all a child can not look "trampy" as you put it. You sound just as fucked up as a pedo.


Quoting mcr17:

i dont care where the kids wearing it. and i talked about what im doing, if she wants her kid to look trampy at that age, no matter where she is, then she can go right ahead. i have better sense as a parent to realize that bikinis are for adults, not children.

Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Newsflash. A pedophile who likes little girls will "whack off", as you put, to a kid in a frickin' snowsuit if he/she thinks the kid is cute. They don't need to see skin to get aroused.



The OP said it was for a backyard pool. How many pedophiles do YOU have in YOUR backyard?




Quoting mcr17:

my daughter WILL NOT have a bikini, if i have my way EVER a pedophile that likes little girls isnt going to care if they are developed enough to show something off in a bikini, it still arouses them. im not about to let my child be a memory for some sick fuck to whack off to later.




Autumn19
by Silver Member on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:37 PM
no we dont like idea of little ones in bikinis when she can buy her own clothes she can wear one.
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Paperfishies
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:38 PM
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Yes I have, those children do not look "trampy". They look like overly made up children.

And if the shoe fits...


Quoting mcr17:

have you even see toddlers and tiaras? yes a child can look trampy.

and dont fucking compare me to pedophile

Quoting Paperfishies:

First of all a child can not look "trampy" as you put it. You sound just as fucked up as a pedo.





Quoting mcr17:

i dont care where the kids wearing it. and i talked about what im doing, if she wants her kid to look trampy at that age, no matter where she is, then she can go right ahead. i have better sense as a parent to realize that bikinis are for adults, not children.

Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Newsflash. A pedophile who likes little girls will "whack off", as you put, to a kid in a frickin' snowsuit if he/she thinks the kid is cute. They don't need to see skin to get aroused.





The OP said it was for a backyard pool. How many pedophiles do YOU have in YOUR backyard?






Quoting mcr17:

my daughter WILL NOT have a bikini, if i have my way EVER a pedophile that likes little girls isnt going to care if they are developed enough to show something off in a bikini, it still arouses them. im not about to let my child be a memory for some sick fuck to whack off to later.






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TheMrs407
by on Apr. 25, 2012 at 9:38 PM
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Do you honestly think any pedophile cares if you child is running naked or in a burka?  No!  They are sick people regardless of what you child is wearing. Insulting other moms on their choices does not make you a better mom, it makes you sound ignorant.

Quoting DropZoneMom:

No -- your young daughter's aren't trying to attract men.   But by putting them in bikinis (especially the 12YO) that's EXACTLY what you're doing -- fulfilling every pedophile's dream at the beach.   Good move, 'mom'.

Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Right. So my 12yo, 8yo, and 4yo are trying to attract men? I've been wearing a bikini since before I could walk, and it's never been about attracting men. Have you ever tried to put a wet one-piece back on a toddler after a potty run?

Quoting DropZoneMom:

For more 'mature' women -- okay, I'll buy that.   But for any girl under 25?   It's about attracting the attention of men.


Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

For many, like myself, it is a comfort issue. One-piece suits are uncomfortable to me. They always ride up and I don't feel like pulling wedgies out all day.



Quoting DropZoneMom:

Oh, REALLY???   Then what exactly IS the goal??



Quoting Lorelai_Nicole:

Lol @ the goal of a bikini being to attract men. That's such a load of bs.





Quoting DropZoneMom:

NO -- I would not put a 4-year-old in a bikini.   Partly because I don't think they're appropriate (what is the goal of a bikini?  To attract the attention of men).   YES -- I understand that she'll only be swimming in a backyard pool.

But she also doesn't need that much skin exposed to the sun.   The incidences of skin cancer -- and deadly melanoma -- have been on the rise for years.   WHY would you take any more risks than necessary??   A tankini isn't going to take away from her enjoyment of the pool.  It will also be easier to say "no" to a bikini when she's a blossoming 13-year-old.   (Mine is okay with not being 'allowed' to wear one till she's 16).

There is no good reason to wear a bikini.  And several good reasons NOT to.





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