STFU, THIS ISN'T YOUR GODDAMN HOUSE! *vent, language* ETA IN RED
MIL strikes again.
We've got two ferrets. I had told DH I would let them run around the main part of the house, which has hardwood flooring. I went to FIL's bedroom cause the door was open, and I told MIL that I was going to close all the doors and let the ferrets play.
She told me I can't.
First off, her and FIL have been divorced for about 3 years now. Me and DH have had the ferrets for a year, and she knew that when she decided to rent the front bedroom from FIL. So this isn't her house to say what we can and cant' do.
Secondly, her excuses for why where complete BS. Her first excuse was, "I gotta clean this floor." All the bedrooms (3) have carpet in them. She had just vacuumed that room yesterday! So I called her out on it. Then she said that they poop on the floor. It's true, they do, but only in corners and we clean it up every time. So I called her out on that. Then she said that they'll scratch the floor. They've been running around this house for a year and haven't scratched the floors, so I told her that as well. Then she said that FIL would have a fit. That's when I lost it.
I told her that she was lying through her teeth. That FIL has let us have the ferrets for a year now and hasn't had a problem with it yet, and that he actually likes the animals, so she can stop lying and shut the damn door so the ferrets can play. That this wasn't her house, the ferrets weren't hers, they were mine and DH's animals, and that they were going to run around the hardwood floor whether she likes it or not.
I have every intention of telling DH when he gets home. This has gone on long enough.
Ok, vent over. Thanks ladies!
ETA
For the record, she doesn't do a damn thing in this house! I clean the floors, our animals are not dirty, and we were there first!
Do I expect her to listen to me? FUCK YEAH! I own the damn animals, I was in this house before she was!
And you guys are hilarious! You know nothing about ferrets, yet you're going to come on here and try to act like you know what you're talking about!
The ones that do know something about ferrets, you know that they are VERY hard to train. Worse than mules.
MIL is just a stupid, controlling bitch who clearly doesn't think any woman is good enough for her 21 year old son, and has every intention of making MY marriage hell cause hers fell apart. Hmm, I wonder why?
She best be fucking glad FIL let her in the damn house to begin with!
I love ferrets! We had one long ago and it would steal potatoes from the bag in the cupboard and hide them under our bed! i would love to have another! Sorry your MIL is being a bitch. What a trooper you are to live with her. There is no way I could live with mine. I'd kill myself!
You're the same girl who lets her baby chew on your husband's dirty flip flops and gets pissed when your MIL takes them away.
Add to this the untrained ferrets who use the bathroom anywhere...
Are you really serious?
An instead of paying for the upkeep for 2 ferrets shouldn't you be saving money so you can establish your own household?
I think it's kind of embarrassing that you are bragging about how long you guys have lived with his dad.
Quoting Livinwith3boys:
She cleans up the shit! Mind your On biss please. Your acting like your a queen who gets waited on all the time! C'm on. Get real hun. This isn't a fantasy. This is REAL life.I am...I asked her why SHE said SHE lives with her granny at the begining of the month, then here said that she has lived there in FIL house for a year with the rodents???? SHE hasn't answered...letting an animal shit on the floor is just nasty....as is her behavior toward the woman who gave birth to her husband!
Quoting Angelover:Stop jumping on Whitley. Stop acting so "PEPPY" It's her animals and plus, please don't be telling her she is wrong. I've known Whitley for 2 years. So..Put your money where ya mouth is people!
Am I wrong for not giving a F**** that hes dying?
- whitleypittman
on Apr. 28, 2012 at 12:42 PM