Got to get her under control!!! HELP!!! (PIOG)
Alright DD was up until recently a well behaved, well mannered little girl. BUT here recently she has gone off the deep end. It was was little things to start with and then today I swear her head spun. I was watching a friend of hers because her mom needed a sitter (no biggie). DS hit her friend with a jump rope for not doing what she wanted her to do. BIG NO NO we do not hit in my house!! She had to write sentences, apologize and I took away all electronics for the rest of the weekend (she cant have them during the week normally). And had her friend just been over to play I would have sent her home but I'm not punishing her mom because my kid cant behave. She then proceeded to go back to playing and then was screaming at the top of her lungs at DS (2). Also a big NO NO, we don't yell at each other. (this includes adults) Then she lied to me about it even though I was right there and saw her do it. She had to write sentences again, she lost her books in bed privilege for the rest of the weekend (normally I try to avoid taking away books when I can) and had to apologize for that too. THEN she put our 18 yo cat in a bag and was carrying her around the house and when I told her to put her down she told me NANA SAID I COULD (yelling at me and she lied) I made her write sentences (this is now up to 60 lines) and made her do chores, so she couldn't play for awhile. And then she "told on" me. She went to my mom and told her I was being mean to her. In fairness my mom told her to get over it she was getting off light for what would have happened to me for acting that way in her house when I was a kid.
Previous offenses: she called my mom fat (she so knows better), she threw a game at my SD because he wasnt letting her win (no one ever does you dont learn anything that way), she will run up when two people are talking and scream until they stop talking and so on. All of this has been over the last month, maybe two.
Sorry so long. Please don't just tell me my kids a brat that is so not helpful, I know she is acting like a snot and want real advice on how to stop it!