Purity Balls, Rings and Promises

But how in the hell can you prove that a kid is still a virgin? fuck I would lie straight through my teeth to get a check, any high school kid would.
Quoting BannerElkHogans:
We got money when we graduated for not having sex an getting introuble an stuff like that.........3,000 check sounds like a good exchange for me 3 grand/ or no sex,booze,parting,etc
so I got 3 grand when I graduated for not doing the doo.

Quoting BannerElkHogans:We got money when we graduated for not having sex an getting introuble an stuff like that.........3,000 check sounds like a good exchange for me 3 grand/ or no sex,booze,parting,etc
so I got 3 grand when I graduated for not doing the doo.
Wow! Just wow. Did they check your hymen before they wrote the check out?

Quoting MIA0223:
The topic of the post is purity rings so.....
Quoting singlemom1208:
Are you talking about a wedding ring or purity ring?
Quoting MIA0223:
Not like that. But DD and SSs are all being raised that sex is for marriage only.
No ring, public display or any other symbol.
There is no need for a public display or daily reminder.

I didn't watch either. I have seen shows on purity balls and pledges before and they creep me out a bit!
Quoting singlemom1208:
Lol. I don't know why I got confused. I'm not where I can watched the videos. :)
Quoting MIA0223:
The topic of the post is purity rings so.....
Quoting singlemom1208:
Are you talking about a wedding ring or purity ring?
Quoting MIA0223:
Not like that. But DD and SSs are all being raised that sex is for marriage only.
No ring, public display or any other symbol.
There is no need for a public display or daily reminder.

I think that we as parents need to teach our children our values. I may very well buy my daughter, and my sons a ring if they are willing to commit to waiting until marriage. Something this important does deserve a little ceromony. If you don't teach your children any values around sex then they WILL most likely do what typical culture says is "Normal" and then their parents will wonder why their child has a teen pregnancy or STD.

If my daughters want to then i would let them
i woule not force them to
they will be educated one way or another
i am not stupid enough to think that a ring is going to stop them from having sex
oh and they stopped having purity balls at the church by my house because they caught many kids having sex at them....oh the irony

I agree. I think it is VERY damaging to the individual and to society as a whole.
Quoting Paperfishies:I think parents who are THAT into their child's sexuality are fucking psycho.
“If people are good only because they fear punishment, and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed”.
-Albert Einstein


Quoting MIA0223:
Lol!
I didn't watch either. I have seen shows on purity balls and pledges before and they creep me out a bit!
Quoting singlemom1208:
Lol. I don't know why I got confused. I'm not where I can watched the videos. :)
Quoting MIA0223:
The topic of the post is purity rings so.....
Quoting singlemom1208:
Are you talking about a wedding ring or purity ring?
Quoting MIA0223:
Not like that. But DD and SSs are all being raised that sex is for marriage only.
No ring, public display or any other symbol.
There is no need for a public display or daily reminder.
- my4yahoos
on Apr. 30, 2012 at 9:42 AM