Do you consider her a mom too? *Edit* Added another question.
This is off the post about being considered a mother even after you miscarry. Personally I consider them moms, just like the rest of us...they are no different at all.
But, my question is this....do you consider a woman whose had an abortion(s) and has zero live children also a mom?
Does it matter WHY she had the abortions? If she had one because of a medical condition do you consider her a mom, as opposed to the one who had an abortion because she didn't use birth control?
So, another question....what about a mom who lost her child but has no other living children? Let's say the child was a stillborn, or the death was due to SIDS, or accidental, ect. The point being that she child is no longer here, does that person stop being a mother since the child, well, doesn't exist anymore?
What is the difference between that and a miscarriage to you?
I understand why some posters say that they don't consider women who had miscarriages to be mothers though, but at least for myself the moment the little stick showed a positive sign I was so connected to my child as a mother, but understandably we are all different and that's okay.