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i told dh he needed to go and explore and find another woman to bug, so he created a profile on pof. and i looked at it. he says he has only one child. guess the kid he has raised since he was a year old doesn't count. fuckin asshole.



1) i HAVE MY OWN POF ACCOUNT! *oooohhh* looking for friends and hang out. HE MSG'D ME. I WAS NOT STALKING HIS POF PROFILE.

2) i am NOT interested in councelling, i am NOT going back to a man who will be nice for a few days, weeks maybe months but revert back to his normal self as soon as he is comfortable. FUCK THAT.

3) i am asking for a divorce. even if i am single for the rest of my life, i will still be better off, and so will my kids.

and for the mom who is a house, PISS OFF! you don't ALWAYS have to be such a mean spirited person! how angry and bitter you must be! you NEVER have anything nice to say, so stuff it!

by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:03 PM
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Momma3830
by on May. 2, 2012 at 3:30 PM
Dumb question: what is POF???
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singlemom1208
by on May. 2, 2012 at 3:31 PM
Aww. Poor kid. :(
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singlemom1208
by on May. 2, 2012 at 3:32 PM
Plenty of fish. Dating site

Quoting Momma3830:

Dumb question: what is POF???
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Momma3830
by on May. 2, 2012 at 3:35 PM
Oh, gotcha. I could get past not knowing what the heck she was talking about. Lol.

Well. I can say is I hope your doing well OP. Good luck :)


Quoting singlemom1208:

Plenty of fish. Dating site



Quoting Momma3830:

Dumb question: what is POF???

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HouseMa
by on May. 2, 2012 at 5:10 PM

She means me.

She's mad at me because I told her her husband is an asshole....which she should be fine with considering she's basically said he was in every, single 'OH WOE IS ME, MY HUSBAND IS AN ASS' post.


Quoting JZB:


Quoting Mrs.VanDeKamp:

i told dh he needed to go and explore and find another woman to bug, so he created a profile on pof. and i looked at it. he says he has only one child. guess the kid he has raised since he was a year old doesn't count. fuckin asshole.



1) i HAVE MY OWN POF ACCOUNT! *oooohhh* looking for friends and hang out. HE MSG'D ME. I WAS NOT STALKING HIS POF PROFILE.

2) i am NOT interested in councelling, i am NOT going back to a man who will be nice for a few days, weeks maybe months but revert back to his normal self as soon as he is comfortable. FUCK THAT.

3) i am asking for a divorce. even if i am single for the rest of my life, i will still be better off, and so will my kids.

and for the mom who is a house, PISS OFF! you don't ALWAYS have to be such a mean spirited person! how angry and bitter you must be! you NEVER have anything nice to say, so stuff it!

HUH


JoshRachelsMAMA
by JRM on May. 2, 2012 at 6:11 PM
How about you worry about your own damned mouth? They are separated and she doesn't want him, so she tells him to go find some other tail? Just exactly how does that make HIM an asshole? Her kid is not his kid.

Don't go around giving other people ultimatums unless you can handle the consequences, and she cant.


Quoting bennys_mom10:

They are separated and she didn't want him do you read any replys before you open your mouth?




Quoting JoshRachelsMAMA:

 



Quoting ahicks1108:



thats pretty crappy :/ but can i ask why hes looking for another woman if you are married?



 She TOLD him to. I'd say the blame lies at her feet.


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CaptainFeast
by on May. 2, 2012 at 6:21 PM

She didn't give him an ultimatum at all. Do you know what ultimatum means?

Quoting JoshRachelsMAMA:

How about you worry about your own damned mouth? They are separated and she doesn't want him, so she tells him to go find some other tail? Just exactly how does that make HIM an asshole? Her kid is not his kid.

Don't go around giving other people ultimatums unless you can handle the consequences, and she cant.


Quoting bennys_mom10:

They are separated and she didn't want him do you read any replys before you open your mouth?




Quoting JoshRachelsMAMA:

 



Quoting ahicks1108:



thats pretty crappy :/ but can i ask why hes looking for another woman if you are married?



 She TOLD him to. I'd say the blame lies at her feet.



mes_deux_amours
by on May. 2, 2012 at 6:33 PM
Then I agree very wrong of him. I hope it's not a sign of future behavior towards your ds.

Quoting Mrs.VanDeKamp:

yes, and yes. and he realizes now that it wasn't cool, although i doubt he will amend it. he has ALWAYS been ds's dad, and i kinda tore into him. i have no problem with him seeing other women, i don't want them around my kids though, if he ever does get a gf, but don't go denying ds.

Quoting mes_deux_amours:

Upon separation where do his responsibilities lie with your oldest? Will he pay child support? Get visitation?


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JoshRachelsMAMA
by JRM on May. 2, 2012 at 6:53 PM
Yes I do. I've been scatterbrained lately and couldn't find the right word. Seems lately its been happening alot.

What I'd meant to say was that you should go around telling people to go and do things and them get mad when they take you up on it.


Quoting CaptainFeast:

She didn't give him an ultimatum at all. Do you know what ultimatum means?

Quoting JoshRachelsMAMA:

How about you worry about your own damned mouth? They are separated and she doesn't want him, so she tells him to go find some other tail? Just exactly how does that make HIM an asshole? Her kid is not his kid.



Don't go around giving other people ultimatums unless you can handle the consequences, and she cant.




Quoting bennys_mom10:

They are separated and she didn't want him do you read any replys before you open your mouth?







Quoting JoshRachelsMAMA:

 




Quoting ahicks1108:




thats pretty crappy :/ but can i ask why hes looking for another woman if you are married?




 She TOLD him to. I'd say the blame lies at her feet.




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amomynous_j
by on May. 2, 2012 at 6:55 PM
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that's what you said when you tried to make HER look like an idiot?

that's certainly not what the rest of us read. 

Quoting HouseMa:

She means me.

She's mad at me because I told her her husband is an asshole....which she should be fine with considering she's basically said he was in every, single 'OH WOE IS ME, MY HUSBAND IS AN ASS' post.


Quoting JZB:


Quoting Mrs.VanDeKamp:

i told dh he needed to go and explore and find another woman to bug, so he created a profile on pof. and i looked at it. he says he has only one child. guess the kid he has raised since he was a year old doesn't count. fuckin asshole.



1) i HAVE MY OWN POF ACCOUNT! *oooohhh* looking for friends and hang out. HE MSG'D ME. I WAS NOT STALKING HIS POF PROFILE.

2) i am NOT interested in councelling, i am NOT going back to a man who will be nice for a few days, weeks maybe months but revert back to his normal self as soon as he is comfortable. FUCK THAT.

3) i am asking for a divorce. even if i am single for the rest of my life, i will still be better off, and so will my kids.

and for the mom who is a house, PISS OFF! you don't ALWAYS have to be such a mean spirited person! how angry and bitter you must be! you NEVER have anything nice to say, so stuff it!

HUH



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