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Is kissing cheating?

Posted by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:33 PM
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If you kiss another man, is it cheating? (no tongue, no touching of any other body parts, just a 2 second touching of the lips)

If your husband pays for a lap dance, it that equal to, better or worse than the kiss?

And is it considered "cheating" of both wife & husband know of each other's "indiscretions" and have no issues with them at all?

Just curious. I may win a bet with this one, though, lol.

 

by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:33 PM
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RedMomma4
by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:36 PM
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I personally feel that both kissing and lap dances are cheating if the other party is not ok with and they are in a committed relationship. If both people are fine with that behavior than no it wouldn't be cheating.
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LuvingMy3Girls
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 1:36 PM
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In my opinion and in my marriage I would consider both cheating. Although I would consider the kiss more so than the lap dance. The lap dance is a bad choice for a married person and a huge waste of money but since (usually) the man has simply paid for a service I don't know that technically its cheating however in my marriage I'd would feel betrayed
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Mrs.Brugger
by Tiara on May. 1, 2012 at 1:36 PM

hmm. i would consider kissing cheating. However, if it's a close friend and you kiss their cheek when saying hello or goodbye i wouldnt consider that cheating.

idk if i would consider a lap dance cheating? I really haven't thought about it. It's still cheating if they know about it (to me).

christina0607
by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:37 PM
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The kiss is all about the intent. Just because it's a man doesn't make it a romantic relationship with the man. 

I can't compare the lapdance to the kiss without knowing the intent of the kiss.

If it's an open marriage then no there is no cheating.

Cymbeline
by Spock's 2nd Cousin on May. 1, 2012 at 1:37 PM

The definition of cheating is defined uniquely in each relationship. Boundaries should be made clear.

They can both be examples of cheating if the other party feels betrayed by the action. If, however, the other party has no qualms with the kissing or lap dance, then it is not cheating.

AF2011
by Gold Member on May. 1, 2012 at 1:37 PM
I would consider both of them cheating.
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ProudMom9799
by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:38 PM

if both parties are good with it - then no it's not cheating. 

babygirlsmom314
by Corinne on May. 1, 2012 at 1:38 PM
I think it would only be cheating if it was hidden from the other person.
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CaptainFeast
by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:39 PM
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Cheating, IMO, is anything you would not want your spouse to do to you.


AmyG1976
by on May. 1, 2012 at 1:39 PM

kissing depends on the ppl some ppl are kissers lap dances again depend on the people some view that as cheating some do not reason why ppl should talk and know each other before marriage lol

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