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I am angry and hurt and a few other emotions right now. PIOG

Posted by on May. 1, 2012 at 6:11 PM
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I found out some things last week, well more like had a few things confirmed. My husband finally admitted he has a problem with porn and alcohol. I'm angry and hurt. He says he wants to get help. I told him if he doesn't get it together I'm divorcing him. I refuse to live like this anymore. I can take a lot of things, but I can't take the lying. Does anyone have any experience with this?

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catrig
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:14 PM

BUMP!

mama2ameira
by Miss Christina on May. 1, 2012 at 6:14 PM
my dad was an alcoholic. he burnt his house down in anger towards his then gf of 8 years , got locked up , "found jesus" , and is now clean. hes been out for a year and has been clean since being locked up. it took a lotof jail time and shit for him to become clean from alcohol. aa meetings never helped. good luck
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kitty8199
by Ruby Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:15 PM
I have a little knowledge with an alcoholic. I don't care if my so looks at porn so I'm no help there (as long as it doesn't interfere with normal life functioning)
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catrig
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:16 PM

That's good that he's clean now.  Thank your for the good luck.

Quoting mama2ameira:

my dad was an alcoholic. he burnt his house down in anger towards his then gf of 8 years , got locked up , "found jesus" , and is now clean. hes been out for a year and has been clean since being locked up. it took a lotof jail time and shit for him to become clean from alcohol. aa meetings never helped. good luck


coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:16 PM
Look for a local Al-A-Non group for support for you. I hope it works out.
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kitty8199
by Ruby Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:17 PM
For the alcoholism AA is a lifesaver. Sounds clichè but ask anyone who goes and they will tell you that is what helped save them. He needs to go to meetings every day for a while. They can help his porn problem, too. They discuss multiple cross addictions with people.
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catrig
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:17 PM

I am not a fan of porn, but I'm more annoyed about the lying to my face.

Quoting kitty8199:

I have a little knowledge with an alcoholic. I don't care if my so looks at porn so I'm no help there (as long as it doesn't interfere with normal life functioning)


catrig
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:18 PM

We each have meetings tomorrow.  Thank you.

Quoting coolmommy2x:

Look for a local Al-A-Non group for support for you. I hope it works out.


smurfy88
by Bronze Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:19 PM
Ive heard aa meetings make it worse, so I wouldn't recommend that.
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catrig
by Silver Member on May. 1, 2012 at 6:19 PM

We each have meetings tomorrow.  Thank you.

Quoting kitty8199:

For the alcoholism AA is a lifesaver. Sounds clichè but ask anyone who goes and they will tell you that is what helped save them. He needs to go to meetings every day for a while. They can help his porn problem, too. They discuss multiple cross addictions with people.


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