im at work and dh has been here for my whole shift. *UPDATE*
Seriously? I asked him to drop off my kids bike and car, and thats all . He has been here since 530. More in replies have customer.
SO stbxdh sat there for a few hours, and it was super busy, beer cloud over chamberlain or something! and i was not wearing my rings, which of course all the regulars noticed, so being the dogs that they are ( i say that kindly) and asking me to come home with them (NO!) and just giving me a hard time, i don't think they realized that my ex was sitting right there, because i ignored him completely, he would try to give me a sweet smile and talk, i would just walk past. he finally left after i made it clear that too much damage has been done and i will not be coming back, so please JUST STOP.
anyways, and then i was having a HUGE panic attack worrying about the kids and the new babysitter, i was even considering calling the RCMP ( the guys talked me out of it, THANK GOD!) i was so worried! but i got home and the house was clean, my kids all snuggled safe in their beds, my rings still in my drawer, and it was a huge reliefe, ds told me this morning that she was really nice. and it was very nice to come home to a clean house!