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do you think its ok?

Posted by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:59 AM
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Do you think its ok to see someone else while you are still married but seperated?
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by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:59 AM
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happymommy1105
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:00 PM
No but lots of people disagree with me.
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mistie900
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 12:00 PM
Yes. I personally don't see a problem with it.
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.shank.
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:01 PM
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If you are separated with the intent to divorce I don't see an issue with it.
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ProudMom9799
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:01 PM

 

Quoting .shank.:

If you are separated with the intent to divorce I don't see an issue with it.

 

hautemama83
by Nichole on May. 2, 2012 at 12:03 PM
Depends on why you're separated. If its with intentions of working on your marriage, then no. But if its the end of things and the divorce just isn't final, then I don't see the big deal.
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art.diva
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:03 PM
It really, really depends on the individual situations. Some people are "separated" while knowing their spouse wants to reconcile. And others have been separated (even living in different states) for months to years, and truly trying to get a divorce.
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MeganGallagher
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:03 PM
thats the same why I feel

Quoting hautemama83:

Depends on why you're separated. If its with intentions of working on your marriage, then no. But if its the end of things and the divorce just isn't final, then I don't see the big deal.
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MeganGallagher
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:04 PM
true

Quoting art.diva:

It really, really depends on the individual situations. Some people are "separated" while knowing their spouse wants to reconcile. And others have been separated (even living in different states) for months to years, and truly trying to get a divorce.
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-Texas-Mommy-
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:04 PM
I am not sure.
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Mrs.Brugger
by Tiara on May. 2, 2012 at 12:05 PM

if you're planning on working it out and it's only a short term seperation, it's not OK.
If you're seperated and in the process of getting a divorce, it's not OK, just wait for it to be finalized. You've got enough going on in your life, you don't need to add dating to the mix.

However, my mom's boyfriend has been seperated from his wife for over 10 years. Not sure WHY she won't sign the papers, but whatever. After that freakin long it's whatever. However, my mom and him have been together for a year now and she's really getting uncomfortable with him still being 'married.' ...But I think this divorce process is actually moving along now. 

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