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Getting a divorce over glasses

Posted by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:14 PM
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I went to the eye Dr today. They said I am far sighted in both eyes. The glasses were buy one get one free. Both glasses were 69.00. They had to order the lenses because of the glasses I got. She added anti glare and scratch. My insurance only paid 43.00 of it. The total was 288.89. Before I went dh told me to get the anti glare, scratch and warenty. When I told him how much it was he cussed me out. Then he told me he wanted a divorce because I was irresponsible. That is the first time I used his card. He handles all the bills. He knew I needed glasses. Now he is being an ass talking about how he doesn't want to be with me because I'm irresponsible. I do everything in the house. I hardly shop and now he wants a divorce because of this.

This is some bullshit. He told me not to talk to him and leave him alone. He has never been this mad at me. I guess I better start looking for a lawyer and a place to live
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touchingstars
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:14 PM
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Ur better off
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i_lovedyoufirst
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2012 at 1:15 PM
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Wtf.
Yeah umm I'd be reconsidering his ass too. Hell no.
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Alliemad_3
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:16 PM
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This has to go deeper than glasses.
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lilcajunmom85
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:16 PM
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OMG!!!! You are so better off w/out him. I would def be trying to get out....he sounds like he is very controlling.

AmieMarieR
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:17 PM
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:( I'm sorry (((hugs)))
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alreadydidthis
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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It has nothing to do with the glasses its more hes not telling you. If ur a sahm dont worry you will get everything. Enjoy your glasses the are helping you see him for the jerk he truly is.
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starreyedcutie
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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He's a Dick!!!!
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armybratmom612
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:20 PM
Wow sounds like he is going something about your finances.
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lifehappy
by on May. 2, 2012 at 1:20 PM

I'm going with this. And if it's not, and he's really that big of a douche, then I find it hard to believe he's never been douche-y about anything else (in a way that would make women run for the hills).

I'm sorry. How long have you been with him?

Quoting Alliemad_3:

This has to go deeper than glasses.


rgba
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2012 at 1:20 PM
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He is speaking out of anger, and his temper is his problem, not your fault. I urge you to seek counseling to help you move forward, whether with or without him.
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