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I'm physically sick to my stomach--update

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Shit just got real.
He is going to file for full custody and ask that I only have supervised visitation. He said he'll be using my mental hospitalization to his full advantage. My attorney said he very well may be awarded but she's going to help me fight it.

I've got movers coming tomorrow to pack, and I'll be moving tomorrow.

I'm excited to start a new, healthy, stable life but it's still going to get so much worse.



I went to my attorney today to proceed with the divorce.

Things got UGLY yesterday when him and I spoke. He said a lot of hurtful things to me.

Then today it continued and got 1,0000000x worse.

I can't stop crying. I feel like I'm going to get sick.

I just need some e-love because my heart hurts.
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by on May. 4, 2012 at 1:27 PM
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momma2mms
by Gold Member on May. 4, 2012 at 1:35 PM
Hugs momma.
luvcloudydays
by on May. 4, 2012 at 1:37 PM
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DIVORCE SUCKS DONKEY BALLS

Just let all that bullshit remind you of why you're getting a divorce in the first place. He's only being hurtful because his man-ego hurts just as much. I went through the same thing.
Hugs, it's all worth it in the end, and you'll come out of it stronger than ever.
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longhorngal
by on May. 4, 2012 at 1:38 PM

emotional pain has got to be the worst.....

 

hugs

kjfamily
by on May. 4, 2012 at 1:41 PM
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 It will probably get worse before it gets better; but it will get easier and one day you will be happy..Keep your head up..are you back with your son?

BeAmour
by on May. 4, 2012 at 2:19 PM
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I am toughing it out but it still hurts.

I've done nothing to deserve a divorce!

I'M the one filing divorce to a husband is who a habitual cheater, liar, emotionally and verbally abusive. Not to mention a thief, stealing $2k from my parents and also stole $300 from his own sons piggie bank....

Yeah, because I did something.

Just because I'm the one filing doesn't make it hurt any less.


Quoting sweetykitty:

Put your big girl unddies on tough it out. What did you do to deserve the divorce?

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BeAmour
by on May. 4, 2012 at 2:20 PM
It's about to get A LOT LOT LOT worse after today.

I'm not back yet. The movers are coming tomorrow.


Quoting kjfamily:

 It will probably get worse before it gets better; but it will get easier and one day you will be happy..Keep your head up..are you back with your son?


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atyou
by on May. 4, 2012 at 2:21 PM
you're gross.



peace and love to you op.


Quoting sweetykitty:

Put your big girl unddies on tough it out. What did you do to deserve the divorce?
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AJB163
by on May. 4, 2012 at 2:21 PM
Hugs OP. You can get through this, just be strong.
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WesAndNicksMom
by Silver Member on May. 4, 2012 at 2:22 PM
Hugs! Things will get better :)
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AJB163
by on May. 4, 2012 at 2:22 PM
Wtf? You're a nasty person.

Quoting sweetykitty:

Put your big girl unddies on tough it out. What did you do to deserve the divorce?
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