Ok so my MIL is spending a week with my DH aunt, the aunt has two grown ass kids, one is 15 and the other one is 17, the aunt is very particular, she doesn't like to leave her kids alone without adult supervision.. whatever... to each their own... also just recently arrived another of my DH causins from Guatemala, with a young I think 12 year old child. My MIL shows up today without letting me know of course, with the two teenagers and the 12 year old. She starts talking to the oldest one she is 17 about going somewhere to apply... and am thinking she better not think that she is going to leave the other kids with me... I know the woman like the back of my hand, on her way out, she is like OH can you have the boys here while I go out, I laughed and I answered sarcastically, "yeah"... she got the hint and left with all the kids.
They like to use my MIL a lot, to go places and to take care of the kids, obviously the cousins that came from Guatemala are doing the same because they left the 12 year old with her also. It pisses me off, that they left this kids to her and she wants to dumped them on me. I don't know the cousin's well enough, that 12 year old doesn't know me at ALL for you to leave the kid with me!! what if something happens? they are going to be under my responsibility just because you wanted to dumped them off on me?! no, am not a babysitter and I have an Autistic sick child to watch and you want me to also take over your responsibility? no sorry.
Note: I wouldn't have minded if she would have called me before hand and told me what she was planning to do, i would have done it, but she didn't, she expected me to watch them, she was soooo sure that I would say yes that she did it on her way out.... and of course am going to be the bitch of the week... anyways am i over reacting??