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Just found out what DH really thinks of me...*edit*

Posted by on May. 5, 2012 at 3:00 AM
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Apparently he's been going around base telling other soldiers that I'm huge and fat. I weigh 150 and am very insecure about my body. Just hearing the things he says about me to other people seriously hurts so bad. I don't even know what to think right now.

*edit* I confronted DH about what I had heard, and yes, he admitted that he had said that. He argued that he was joking and then got mad at me for being upset with him. We haven't spoken unless we had to since Saturday nor have we been in the same room for more than a couple minutes at a time since then. He hasn't tried to apologized or to make things right. I know army wives and soldiers start a lot of rumors and drama, but I know my friends and I know my husband, and unfortunetly I was right to believe what I heard. I just don't know where to go from here. I think I'm probably over reacting, but I just can't help the way I feel. Considering how insecure I am about my weight and my body, what he said cut deep. Thank you ladies for the advice and support!
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MIA0223
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:01 AM
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Did he tell you this or is it a rumor?
Talk to him!
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strictmomhere
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:02 AM
Oh wow im sorry
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nymphogirl06
by Bronze Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:03 AM
Wow are you sure he aint trying to keep them away from you
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:03 AM

Where did you hear this from?  I would definitely have an adult conversation with him about how these things hurt your feelings.

Ireallydontcare
by on May. 5, 2012 at 3:03 AM
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OMG I am so sorry. Our DH's are suppose to be our champions. I am hurt for you. I really am.

gum.drop
by on May. 5, 2012 at 3:04 AM
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I hope your not taking this to heart from another army wife.... Most. Of them have nothing better to do than gossip and start shit.

It's your marriage , dont let anyone else in . Talk to your husband.
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darlula
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:04 AM
Well fuck him. A man should only have nice things to say about the woman he married.
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3xangel
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:06 AM
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Wow. How did you find out? I would kick him in the balls and most likely contemplate on leaving him. Just wow.
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wife07_mom08
by Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:08 AM
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I would hurt DH if he ever said that about me!!! U need to ask him b4 believing rumors tho
CABZS
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2012 at 3:11 AM
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If he didn't say it to you then I wouldn't believe it until you talk to him.

I don't listen to gossip.

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