I live with my 3 kids, DH and MIL ( mil actually moved in with us 6 months ago because she left her husband) and they all seem to hate me. Every decision I make seems to anger DH and MIL. If I sleep in to late then I get snapped at, forget the kids that are 15, 12 and 5 and sleep later than me. If I read a book, they say I'm ignoring my kids ( again 15, 12 and 5 and usually doing there own thing) If I am alone with DH and listen to audiobooks I'm ignoring my DH. I own my own business and DH is mad because I work 6 days a week right now, BTW I'm the only one working and the only one with income. If I buy dinner and bring it home than its bad because after working 12 hours I dont feel like cooking ( money is not an issue). The kids are starting to talk to me like a servant rather than their mom, and when I get on to them, I'm told to chill out. No one is ever insulting in speech, they dont yell or call names or anything, I just get the judgemental looks, and eyerolls and sometimes even a calm " your children should be your first priority". Today was my only day off this week and we stayed home and I layed around ( I was exhausted) DD wanted to go to the park and I said no and DH started in on how she is bored and it wouldn't hurt me to take her and he was happy to take her but I had to come to. I just feel like I'm outnumbered and its the whole house against me. It's so bad I'm thinking about leaving. DH and I were very happy until I started my business and MIL moved in so basically this has been for the past year. DH won't listen to me and MIL rolls her eyes so talking to them means nothing. I just needed to vent sorry.