He doesn't get it. Wwyd? (Just wanted to add...update in red)
I work full time (so does my husband). I also do the dishes,make the meals,do the laundry,sweep,mop and wipe down the kitchen.Each of the boys have chores but the youngest ones need to be reminded.It seems I am always working,even on my days off. I can deal with this;it is part of life.
But,what I don't want to deal with and in my opinion should NOT have to deal with is my hubby's sh!t. He doesn't like it if I cook with the crockpot...he says it doesn't count because nobody is actually cooking the food. "It does it by itself!" He also very rarely has anything nice to say about the food (Always some stupid excuse why it could have been better)...He usually says "It was salty;too hard;too soft..."etc. It was really starting to get on my nerves,so I stopped cooking for him.
He gets his feelings all hurt.Tells me I should apologize for making him feel bad. WTH...I cook for you every day and there is ALWAYS something wrong with it. When I stop cooking for you because you are being a dick I should apologize for hurting your feelings?! Damn it....learn to say thank you, you ungrateful worm.
Vent over. I still don't think I'm wrong. I will NOT apologize for working my a$$ off and refusing to listen to you whine because it wasn't exactly the way you like it.Moron.( I'm only a tiny bit mad,mostly it just hurts my feelings and he doesn't get the why it hurts,kwim?)
During the weekends I work graveyard ( 8:oo p.m. to 5:00 a.m.) and on Sundays after just have gotten off work at 4:00a.m. I have to be back at work on the same day at 3:00 p.m. So,on Sundays I usually get home after work and go straight to bed. I have always HATED this "turn-around" shift. It makes me feel like a zombie( walking around not really awake). So,I get off work at 4:30 a.m.;climb in my bed and CAN'T sleep. I lie there awake for about 2 hours.I'm finally starting to doze off (by now it's around 1:30p.m.) and my hubby walks into the room and starts shaking my shoulder. When I open my eyes he demands "You aren't making anything for supper?!"Well,excuse me for trying to sleep before going back to work in an hour. Dude,WTH is wrong with you? He always worries about making the food on Saturday and Sunday... I refused to get up and he stormed off muttering about having to eat fast food.
(Btw,he has NEVER done anything like this before. I sort of think his mom put him up to it...he was on the phone with her for about 2 hours yesterday. I will call and ask her why she's giving him advice that can get him KILLED?)
What's the difference between a penis and a prick?
A penis is fun, sexy and satisfying... A prick is the guy who owns it.