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Ok, so I'm watching Dr. Drew on CNN and there are 2 women on there who were adopted and found their biological fathers.  They were elated to find their parent and started growing close to them.  In both cases, these women developed a sexual attraction/relationship with their bio fathers.  Both women were married and both women's marriages survived this twisted infidelity/incest.  They have actually labeled this "phenomenom" as a disorder and have given it the name of Genetic Sexual Attraction, or GSA.  They describe it as "an attraction that happens between family members who've been separated for most of their lives and haven't had the chance to bond properly,”   and say that it's caused by oxytocin, which is the same hormone that happens when a mother gives birth and bonds with her baby, it's just delayed.

So.....I'm thinking, trying to understand and buy into their "reasoning" for this type of behavior and I say the "disorder" is just a way to justify their sick behavior.  It is repulsive!.  It's just sick and twisted.  I know they didn't grow up with knowing one another but they knew when they sought out their fathers that they were related.  They are all adults and met as adults and concsciously decided to have a sexual relationship even when they knew they were related.  They voluntarily did this!!!  What in the hell did they tell themselves the first time they had sex?  They keep saying "when it happened", as if it can some how be equated with like, say, a rain storm or a broken leg.  Those things just happen.  YOU MADE A DECISION TO GO TO A SECLUDED PLACE WITH YOUR FATHER/DAUGHTER, TAKE YOUR CLOTHING OFF AND ENGAGE IN A SEX ACT.  It didn't just happen!!!  Obviously this type of thing has occurred for centuries, but I guess other than being repulsed by the incest because it was voluntary (between ADULTS WHO CONSENTED and not a situation where the playing field isn't level, e.g, a minor child being abused) I'm appalled and irritated that they want to clean it up and make it nice by giving it a nice little "disorder" title.  What do you think?

by on May. 11, 2012 at 1:04 AM
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Fields456
by Sexy and I know it on May. 11, 2012 at 1:41 AM
Quoting Siannashell:




Ya that too ew ew ew.
quickbooksworm
by Silver Member on May. 11, 2012 at 1:44 AM
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Oxytocin is released during sex, childbirth, breastfeeding, and probably a few other random activities. Not that I'm condoning the behavior, but its possible the release of the oxytocin is misunderstood and emotions are all mixed up as a result.


Quoting NewMama28:

Wth. I'm sOrry but comparing it to the hormone oxytocin which is produced to create bonding btw mom and baby??? Ummmmm I DO NOT recall EVER Feeling like having sex with my baby (disgusting) or anyone fOr that matter when I had my baby!!! C'mon!! In fact it was probably the least "sexual" I've ever felt!!!! The bond with your child is the type of bond that should be as asexual as you can get. Argument NOT valid to me. SOrry.

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Mommy2ZOEBETH
by on May. 11, 2012 at 1:52 AM
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Can you say "daddy issues"?

motherslove82
by Gold Member on May. 11, 2012 at 1:53 AM
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 I've never heard of that. That sucks.

Quoting PinkHairMAMA:

I'm glad somebody else posted about what else oxytocin does. I'm missing the septum pelosidum that produces oxytocin and it had caused me ALL kinda problems in my life. I'm also adopted so I guess I don't have to worry about sleeping with my bio father. <<< weak attempt at a joke.
;-)


Quoting motherslove82:

 Oxytocin is also released during sex. That's one reason that having sex can put a woman into labor. It's natures way of bonding  a woman with her husband and children.  I don't know what it has to do with a grown woman sleeping with the father she's never met, but it's not just released during breastfeeding.


Quoting NewMama28:

Wth. I'm sOrry but comparing it to the hormone oxytocin which is produced to create bonding btw mom and baby??? Ummmmm I DO NOT recall EVER Feeling like having sex with my baby (disgusting) or anyone fOr that matter when I had my baby!!! C'mon!! In fact it was probably the least "sexual" I've ever felt!!!! The bond with your child is the type of bond that should be as asexual as you can get. Argument NOT valid to me. SOrry.

 


 

Amyinthesky
by on May. 11, 2012 at 1:58 AM
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As a person who was sexually abused by her dad I think this entire thing is ... you know I would have to invent a new word. I could never imagine doing this willingly. *VOMIT*

1stpreggers
by on May. 11, 2012 at 2:04 AM
That's exactly what I was thinking when I read this!

Quoting krissie28:

law and order svu just had an episode about this shit..people are fuckd up

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cocoadoll63
by on May. 11, 2012 at 6:45 AM


Quoting NewMama28:

Wth. I'm sOrry but comparing it to the hormone oxytocin which is produced to create bonding btw mom and baby??? Ummmmm I DO NOT recall EVER Feeling like having sex with my baby (disgusting) or anyone fOr that matter when I had my baby!!! C'mon!! In fact it was probably the least "sexual" I've ever felt!!!! The bond with your child is the type of bond that should be as asexual as you can get. Argument NOT valid to me. SOrry.

Right?!? When I looked at my baby, I was overwhelmed with love over and over again, but there was so NOTHING sexual about it! 

cocoadoll63
by on May. 11, 2012 at 6:48 AM


Quoting LuvCoopins:

Nice to meet you daddy. Wanna fuck?

LMAO!!!

mmtosam06
by Gold Member on May. 11, 2012 at 6:49 AM
OMG Way to early WTH that's nasty
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Justine1123
by Justine on May. 11, 2012 at 6:55 AM
I just watched a law and order svu about this.
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