he beat me while i was holding my daughter-edit
ok now that i got your attention. btw that did happen but im over it...
SO dd1's father (guy mentioned in title) is in prison (i have posted about him before). he started seeing this guy....this fucker molested HIS NEPHEW. a bunch of times but was charged with 3 counts of child molestation. well now he plans on getting aplace with him when they get out (like a week apart). (sick fucker is in his 50's dd1s sd is 22). WELL due to this news (which he told me himself) i have decided to stop allowing dd to go visit him. reason being....i do not want her getting to know a guy who will not be involved in her life!! which if he is going to be with this sick fuck he will not be. SOO his mother tells he "hes PROBABLY just yanking your chain" well then until i see differently i said she will not be seeing him. she says im over reacting SOO what do you think?!?! wwyd? and no he is not in prison for beating me...wi doesnt give a fuck if a man beats his woman...he is in for a drug charged turned to revocation for leaving the jail on huber when he wasnt suppose to, to revocation for harrassing me when there was a no contact order put in by his p.o.
edit- LEGALLY the bf is not allowed around children but ik his mother would bring her there and keep it 'their little secret' ALSO i was told that he and i HAVE to go to mediation which has to wait until he gets out in order to get permanment full placement and change the custody order so i have sole custody (it is 50/50 right now)...or they said i could get a lawyer which i can not afford.