See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok, this is my vent. People REALLY need to calm the hell down about people on welfare having kids. There are a LOT worse parents out there that should NOT be having kids. Sure you whine that it's your taxes but guess what??! Those taxes are going to be taken out of your paycheck regardless! I know a LOT of parents that are dirt poor and still AWESOME parents! The kids they raise are going to be awesome additions to the world's population because they were raised so well! So I'm sorry..I do NOT think income should dictate whether you are allowed to have children. I DO think parents should be drug tested for HEAVY drugs, criminal records, and perhaps psychological evaluation (seriously psychotic) before being allowed children. I do NOT think income should matter! I've been on welfare for 6 years. Yup I said it. But you know what?! I'm a hell of a mother. My husband and I deserve the love of children and we DESERVE a family! We have clawed our way up and I am sick and tired of people saying I don't DESERVE children. Well you know what?! My children are well behaved, polite, loving, goofy, and smart as hell. I will make sure they go for their dreams no matter what they are! So instead of bitching about MY income and the taxes they are going to take regardless...how about bitching about the parents abusing, killing, and too damn stupid to have children!? And the whole reason I am posting this is because we are newly off welfare for the first time in 6 years and I asked for ideas for meal planning. And instead of people saying congrats on getting off welfare..they are bashing me saying I don't deserve children. DON'T EVER TELL ME THAT I DON'T DESERVE TO HAVE MY BABIES.