my beloved aunt went to the hospital Sunday. Today we found out that she has cancer in her liver, lung and pancerus. i tell him and he goes, " oh, she's dead." so i say, really? can you not have compassion for me.
what does he say, " am i going to have to deal with you being sad for seven months?"
what the fuck? am i not allowed to be sad? Im so pissed at him right now.
what would you say to him?
i did just walk away because i dont even know what to say. i understand its cancer and she is going to die but am i not allowed to be sad?
You should just ask him not to be such A cocksucker.
I dont know what I would say at that point... i would probably just walk away but im non confrontational.... but by Lunger did you mean liver?
i understand that more then likely she is going to die but he didnt have to act that way
What a douche response from him. Why couldn't he say something along the lines of I am sorry. I know you are upset. I wish I could take your pain away. I am here for you. Of course you are allowed to be upset. I am sorry he is such a callous asshat !
At that moment I probably wouldn't say anything. I can see myself walking away in tears. I'm sorry he was insensitve. Is that behavior out of the ordinary?
Am I overreacting or? Eta and small update
- summerlove3677
on May. 22, 2012 at 7:57 PM