Would you be mad if your husband did this?

[ychavez]

I am 19 and my husband is 21... We are recently married and when I go on the Internet of his phone I sometimes see pictures of half naked models. I told him many times I don't like it. It makes me feel like im not good enough for him. I never seen him look at a picture of me. Idk I just don't know who to talk to about this. I feel alone sometimes. He's a good guy but I just don't feel pretty anymore around him or special.

[godsgirl26]

i would take to him about that. Me and my husband dont get down like that (naked pic's) of someone else. I find that very wrong.

[supergirl362]

My hubby and I were married young also. I used to play on his phone and find all kinds of stuff from porn websites to boob shots he saved from the Internet. It used to bother me because I felt the same way you do now. But I learned over the past 9 years that he is a man, and is comfortable in his sexuality. He isn't looking because he doesn't like the way I look anymore, he is looking because he is a man. It is in their nature as men. If he *didn't* look, I would be worried that he wasn't attracted to me anymore. There isn't anything wrong with looking, just so long as they don't touch. =)

[elleinady]

Feeling like you're not enough is. If she had better self esteem, she'd know she was.

Quoting starreyedcutie:

She has low self esteem because she doesn't want her husband looking and naked skanks? How the hell does that work? Every woman doesn't have to be ok with their husband doing something like this

Quoting elleinady:

Grow up and get some self esteem.

[Young_Mommy89]

Speak up. Marriage is about communication

[ychavez]

Thanks

[harpsichord]

Wouldn't bother me

[LadyStork]

I understand 100% and this is a huge problem in our marriage. Makes.me feel like trash.

Quoting ychavez:

Thanks makes me feel better and yes he always wants it so I guess I shouldn't worry about it I jus find it unnecessary if he has me already

[DylansMommyXo]

This

Quoting VintageWife:

It's not okay in our marriage. It caused too many problems and loss of trust for a long time. It's no longer a part of it now.

[momto3infl]

 No-because they are just models.  Hubs nows I stare down cute actors on TV movies and on the internet-so doesnt bother me what he looks at online, etc.  We play it up as fantasy sometimes.

[kmorales7690]

my husband and i had a similar problem when we first moved in together, for me its a disrespect issue, not so much about feeling pretty, or attractive. Sit down and talk to him about it, tell him how it makes you feel. be honest with him, maybe go to some marriage counseling or something, but try not to lose your cool when your doing it, for a while i would just get so mad and yell at my husband when he would look at porn or something, stay calm and tell him exactly how you feel.  If he is a good guy he will respect your feelings.