Hubby made me feel like sh**... PICS added...UPDATE!
My husband made me feel like shit on 3 separate occasions in one Walmart trip.
My daughter and I were looking at bathing suits and he said to me, "what size do you need, probably like a 3x?" As he looks me head to toe.
Than we were walking by the pharmacy he stops and stares at diet pills for a few and than says to me "do you want to try any of these, you should".
And lastly, we were at a gas station and he had to go in to pre pay and these 4 girls were standing outside their car in front of the store smoking. Hubby walks out of the store and one of the girls asks for a light and my hubby was wearing his shirt and tie from work and she grabs his tie and runs her hands down it. Than she leans in and runs her hand down his chest. Hubby has a shit eating grin on his face as he's walking back to the car. He pumps gas and gets in the car and says to me, "you should be thankful I'm with you"
I want to become a bulimic or something. I hate myself.
UPDATE....
Sorry I've been busy but I've been replying to peoples comments. That night, we didnt talk but the next day we texted all day while he was at work. He came up with all these excuses saying I'm the one saying I want to lose weight all the time and he was just trying to motivate me. WRONG way to do that. I told him, if he didnt love me, respect me, appreciate me than I was going to leave with MY kids. Yes, he's their dad but if he's going to degrade me cause of how I look, Im going to take what is mine. He begged me not to leave but my kids were sitting here watching me cry. SO, we packed and went to my brothers house. I needed time alone. As of right now, I left him. We have been talking obviously cause of our kids but I have no desire to go "home" right now. I've been driving the kids back and forth to school since my brother lives in a total different district but there's only like 3 weeks left of school, Im not going to pull them. Anyway......thats my update. I dont know what to do from here.
Tell him you can lose weight-but how does he plan to fix his nasty attitude?
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Quoting Tea4Tas:Tell him you can lose weight-but how does he plan to fix his nasty attitude?
No one should have to put up with that crap. Don't let him put you down. If he did this, i'd leave him.
you should not hate yourself, you should hate him. he is being mentally abusive - you are gorgeous, just the way you are - tell him I said he ain't no prize anyway
Don't hate yourself because your husband is a dick. All of those things are mean and hurtful and shouldn't be tolerated by anyone especially a man that is supposed to love you (and could lose a pound or two himself). Maybe you need a divorce attorney instead of an eating disorder. I'm sorry this happened to you and I hope you can remedy the situation. But if not there are worse things than being alone honey.
Is that your husband? I would tell him he should shut his mouth, because he doesn't exactly look like anyone's idea of a prize.
He doesn't look any thinner than you do. WTF is his problem?
Is it just me, or... ?
DD thinks she looks like a famous guys kid lol (please vote, she wants to know)
- CallxMexMama
on May. 25, 2012 at 11:19 PM