not happy right now with my marriage need to vent!
OMG I am sooo irritated with my husband.. Lets start by saying the night before mothers day we got in a arguement and it ended in my mom and him arguing.. My mom was leaving to a hotel and I went with her and my kids. we were supposed to go to breakfast for mothers day but that was OBVIOUSLY ruined. This was there first arguement ever and we have been together for 5 years married for 1(he did apologize and the made up). A week ago he told me we dont have enough sex.. he was telling me that saturday when we just had sex the thursday before. He isnt very affectionate which I told him is a big factor in me wanting to even have sex. I think that is a need for a lot of women they want to be affectionate and feel all warm and fuzzy. He has been arguing with me about finances cause he wants to save money for us to move across the states to where he is from. I tell him how I think we should save and he doesnt listen. I feel like he is really hard on our oldest son now 4. Its like he will yell or scold him for everything. Tonight I talk to him about our oldest son and I was telling him he needs to try not to always yell at him (and its not like screaming at him but its like a scolding or saying your going to your room if you dont do this or that, or getting things taken away, sometimes it is yelling) it was like talking to a brick wall he doesnt even listen to me. Then tonight our sons seem to be coming down with colds.. the oldest wakes up and comes out of his room sayin hes scared hes been up laying on the couch and just talking or walking to get somethign I keep telling him to lay down. My youngest son just woke up crying and I kept telling my oldest ot go to sleep..all of a sudden my husband comes out and this time he bends over to intimidate my oldest and just YELLS at him to go to bed now.. I hate when he does that. like tries to put fear in him. so I yelled at dh and said go to bed I dont need you coming out here yellling at him I am taking care of it. I will yell at the kids but my yelling and his are completely different. And then he got mad and starts yelling at me as he heads back to bed. UGH I am sooo frustrated! We had a good marriage for a while the past couple weeks its just been miserable.. I want to fix things cause its not everyday we are fighting, im just so mad right now!!!