Annoying / frustrating...or am i just being bitchy ? *title change*
Ok , i will say that the communication with my ex has somewhat gotten better...
He has been coming over to see DD ..and to spend time with both of us ( we are talking ..to see if we can get past some problems..to perhaps get back together..)
So in anycase ..this is a vent , i will warn you now ..but i also want to know if i am the only one that find's this annoying.
I am a mom of an ADD & anxiety child ..so needless to say sometime's my day takes a lot out of me , and im just ...blah.
The ex show's up at 10 pm (after he was done helping a buddy of his work on some things at his house) ...to see DD to bed (she's been having trouble falling asleep)...and to hang out with me...not a problem.
However , he was so tired that he looked like he was going to fall on his face..and i told him so , he said " yea i am really really tired" ...to which i just said " oh , than why don't you go home..."
No i probably did not say it in a peppy voice or anything ..but like i said ..im in a blah mood..however it was not said in a bad way or anything ...
All of a sudden he is going on ..and on about how i am in a bad mood , and if i didnt want him to come over i should have said so...
I once again try to explain that im just in a blah mood...meaning , i just wanted to veg out..
Ladies ..my vent is , he does this ALL the time.
But hell if i am in a peppy good mood ...he questions it (which i usually am in a peppy good mood) ...but if im in a blah mood ...he automatically thinks it is about him! ...he seem's to take EVERYTHING personal..
It's like i am not allowed to be how i feel that day...
Is it just me ..or would anyone else find this annoying ?