when someone visits you at your home **EDIT** ETA, Why I'm asking

[mai_sindi]

and you want to give them some sort of refreshment, do you just bring it to them or do you offer it to them first?

**EDIT**
the reason I'm asking is that apparently in my culture it's rude to offer someone something when they visit. It is said u're just supposed to bring them whatever it is. I only found this out recently. Growing up, my mum would always offer first and that's what I do now.

I know it's my culture but this is completely weird imo. What do you think?

[momma-flynn]

I offer first

[LuvCoopins]

Offer and tell them what we have.

[JuliaW]

Offer first.

[Josie_P]

I offer it first. 

[Texascandee]

I offer first............the people that come to my house usually help themselves......

[GreenEyePixie]

This until the 3rd or 4th visit.

Quoting LuvCoopins:

Offer and tell them what we have.

[girllovescamo]

Offer and tell them what we have

[demonica29]

The only people who come over are close friends. I tell them to get off their @$$ and get it themselves. LOL

[cklamour]

Offer first.

[starryeyez23]

I say we have milk, water, juice etc. Please let me know if you would like anything or feel free to help yourself.