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Is there anything Your Dh/So 'forbids' You to do? **EDIT

Posted by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:57 AM
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Such as, going to a club with a girlfriend, or wearing makeup, clothing he doesn't like, ...etc etc etc..just curious as to what other women's dh's/so's are like, and if they try to 'control' some aspects of their wives.  


**for those who are married, saying "cheating or beinig unfaithful" doesnt' count,   as it is in your vows not to.  You are already forbidden by law of marriage to cheat or be unfaithful. **

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krayzbabylove
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:58 AM
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Sleeping with other people? Does that count?
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The_Doodle
by Silver Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:58 AM
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He forbids me to not buy coffee for him. That's about it.

lovelove211
by Silver Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:59 AM
Nope, I don't recall him saying that about anything like that
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KelliansMom
by Gold Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:59 AM
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He doesn't have that kind of control. That type of relationship just wouldn't work for us.
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RedRozeMom
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:59 AM
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Nope...we're both adults and see no need to forbid anything.
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aimhawk
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:59 AM
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He doesn't like bangs and forbids me to ever come home with them when I go to get my hair cut, but its more in a joking playful manner. He isn't controlling.

hellokittyy
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 6:59 AM
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LOL I dont like that word forbid

But I don't cheat??
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Jadegirl1819
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 7:00 AM
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LOL, I was going to write the same thing.

Quoting krayzbabylove:

Sleeping with other people? Does that count?


Elle.tea.22
by Bronze Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 7:00 AM
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I would laugh in his face of he told me I'm not allowed to do something lol he's not my dad. He expects me not to cheat and I expect the same. I think that's it.
rosemagic01
by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 7:00 AM
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Have sex with other people? LOL. I can't cheat. Otherwise he only forbids me to do things he actually wants me to do knowing I've got a wicked streak and I won't be told what I can and can't do. 

He knew how badly I wanted to get my hair colored pink and purple but I refused to do it because of the cost I thought it would be. He said "Good cause I don't want you doing it anyways! Your not a kid anymore" I got it done and he admitted that he did it on purpose so I would get over the cost of doing it he's SUCH a butt. LOL

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