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if your dh has had a vasectomy, I need help...maybe TMI *UPDATE*

Posted by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:40 PM
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ladies, my DH had a vasectomy done a week ago...the dr came out and said there was some "complications" with the left side-a lot of bleeding I guess. My poor DH walked out of the office and then ended up coming super close to passing out-his BP dropped crazy and he was sweating more than if we worked out for hours on end. He acted all lethargic and wasn't responding to me. I had to run and get someone to help but anyways this was over a week ago (last Wed) and to be honest, I hadn't even looked at him to see anything until tonight and he showed me and told me he was still ina  LOT of pain. I couldn't believe my eyes. He is EXTREMELY swollen still and half of his penis is all black and blue. Is this normal??? He goes back Tues but he asked me if I would ask on here if other women's DH's had experienced this... How long was your DH in pain (I would say fairly severe) and aldo the bruising...how long did that last? Thanks for any help/insight!


So I just spoke with the actual dr who performed it and she said it was "no big deal." I mean seriously!! WTF?! She thinks it was just a blood vessel and to ice it and take pain meds. I am making him seeing someone tomorrow this is ridiculous...

Posted by on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:40 PM
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armywife009
by Janna on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:42 PM

Bump! Hope he gets better!

Ashmom614
by Platinum Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:43 PM

thank you!

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Bump! Hope he gets better!


Logan_Bellasmom
by Falling Starr on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:43 PM

no thats not normal...

ladybuglove08
by Silver Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:43 PM
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My dh had complications too..
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devinsmom42
by war eagle baby on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM
Um I'd be going to the er now. Before he loses his dick lol and no its not funny at all. I wouldn't wait!
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Ashmom614
by Platinum Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM

can you elaborate?? what did they do?? Im super worried about him :-/

Quoting ladybuglove08:

My dh had complications too..


momofmy2boys
by Silver Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM
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No that's not normal. Poor guy hope he gets better soon
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taKENheart
by Flovely on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM
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NOT normal imo. He needs to go in.
Ashmom614
by Platinum Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM

seriously?? I am all worried now omg...

Quoting devinsmom42:

Um I'd be going to the er now. Before he loses his dick lol and no its not funny at all. I wouldn't wait!


davnrori
by Silver Member on Jun. 14, 2012 at 9:44 PM

 DH had a vasectomy last July. He was never in any severe pain, just uncomfortable for a few days. He wore a jockstrap to keep things from bouncing around for about a month. He didn't run or exercise for six weeks. He had slight swelling but no bruising at all. From my experience, what your DH is going through is not normal.

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