Ok I have these family friends of ours that I have known for gosh probably 10 years and they have been the ones to watch my kids since my oldest was a baby.
Well yesterday they were watching them (my 3 & 6 year old boys) so I could get some of my school work done. As the day went on I felt terrible as I have been coming down w/ something and since I'm 25 weeks pregnant there isn't much I can take. So I called my mom to see if she would take them over night so I could get a break. I am in full time nursing school and hubby is out of town. Well she couldn't so she said she would call said family friend and ask if they didn't mind (they are a couple). Well of course they were more than happy to.
I woke up this morning feeling lots better, ran to walmart for a few things, called family friend to let them know I would be there soon. He let me know that my youngest hasn't been feeling so good and has thrown up twice since waking up. Well I get there and he was just waking up from a nap, super cranky and feels a little warm. We get home and are sitting there watching cartoons. I finally convinced my little guy that a bath might make him feel a little better. So I was helping him get undressed and I noticed that about 50% of his testicles is all bruised.... that definitely was not there Wednesday night/ Thursday morning. So of course I start freaking out... thinking my worse fears as a parent have come true. So I call my husband and that seems to be the last thing on his mind...he said are you sure he didn't just fall why don't you just call and ask?
Well I calmed down a little and asked my 3 year old who isn't very talkative what happened, if he got a boo boo... nothing. So I asked my 6 year old and he did not know. So I just continued to get them into the bath, then my little guy threw up again :( It was a quick bath, we are now sitting on the couch coloring and watching TV. He feels much better. So I decided to call them I said "Do you know if maybe Lucas hurt himself, fell or something because there is a large bruise in his groin area". & they said "No we have no idea".
I have calmed down alot.... I mean before I was a crying mess. But that is just an odd place for a bruise to me?? I don't know what I should do.
IDK what someone could possibly say that is mean or rude at this point... but hey this is cafemom. So if you haven't anything nice to say please just turn around because I am NOT in the mood.