trying to make dd1s bio dad happy is impossible!
i made a post saying BF thinks he should only have to pay $200 a month in CS from the $354 he pays now. Well since i went back to work this week i texted him and told him that I would agree to him lowering his CS. Only on one condition since i didnt want his money anyway... I told him i didnt care what his CS went too, but as long as he paid for DD1s gymnastics class which is $70 a month + $30 a year for registration, and ATLEAST $100 a month towards her preschooling because she can start public kindergarten next fall. He said NO because its not fair he is having to pay for ALL of her gymnastics and that it should be 50/50.
EVEN AFTER I
EXPLAINED to him that i am NOT asking for him to pay his 90% of her
medical bills(which it states in our CO). Because im paying for that
plus half of her schooling. He didnt care, he said it was unfair and
that he was not going to agree to that because she is both of our
daughter. I really give up on this situation because when i think im
compromising with him he changes his mind. If you ladies could think of a
solution i would greatly appreciate it! Thanks.
Then don't change it. If he is too dense to figure out that he would be saving money, then just use what you get for those things and use the rest for other things you or she may need. Men are so dumb some times.
If you had to go 90 days without
- luvmykids08_10
on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:38 AM