Our garage has been used for storage for three years. Our truck is to big to fit so we never used it. It got infested with mice and thankfully we have a cat who has been keeping them out of the house but because of that we didn't realize how bad it had got. Almost everything in there is trash now. Nothing majorly important but it's alot of stuff. We rented a dumpster 3 days ago to get rid of everything and we only have it until monday. For three days I have been taking care of the kids soley by myself so DH can clean it all out. He has to do 90% of it because I simply can't lift most of it. He hasn't even got a quarter of it done because he keeps doing other things that can wait until the trash is gone. The trash has a time limit, the other stuff doesn't. He keeps yelling at me that I am not doing anything, that I am not helping him in any way. So today I tried to help and every time I tried he would go off somewhere else and leave me doing it by myself. I give up. No matter what I do it's not enough. I try to keep the kids out of his way so he can get it done and I get yelled at. I put the younger kids down for a nap and the older ones in front of the tv so I can help out and I get ditched with no warning. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
You said yourself he has to do 90% of it.so I'm confused.?
I guess that's why I'm confused.
Quoting mamacam7:The problem is that I can't do it by myself. He did all the easy stuff already so I can only help him carry the big stuff. Without him, me being out there is completly pointless.
Quoting mackQuin:
Could he be taking a break when you come out?
Because it's too heavy. There is some big furniture out there, like a couch and old recliner, tons of heavy boxes full of junk.
Quoting mackQuin:
Why can't you do it?
I guess that's why I'm confused.
Quoting mamacam7:The problem is that I can't do it by myself. He did all the easy stuff already so I can only help him carry the big stuff. Without him, me being out there is completly pointless.
Quoting mackQuin:
Could he be taking a break when you come out?
Quoting mamacam7:
Old furniture, toys, clothes....things like that
Quoting mackQuin:
How much trash do you guys have in there?
You said yourself he has to do 90% of it.so I'm confusesed
so the 10% is the little that u can p/u..y'all don't have any family members or neighbors who can either watch the lil one(which i wouldn't do only cause i trust no one with my babies) or least come help the hubby while u watch the kids..
Around here, people have ads in the paper/Craigslist offering to clean stuff like that for free.
How did you find Cafemom?
- mamacam7
on Jun. 16, 2012 at 2:38 PM