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She walked away from her special needs child to be with a man with 9 kids! She can take on that but not her own child just because he has special needs? That is just disgusting.
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by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:10 PM
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MrsWhite101610
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:21 PM

That's crazy. Did she give a "reason"? Not that there is really ever a good reason to abandon your child...

Meand5
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:21 PM
I hate when women put men before their kids
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happymommy1105
by Platinum Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:23 PM
Raising a special needs child is no joke. It's hard.

Some people emotionally cannot handle it.

I can't judge.

It has been very difficult for me to adjust to having a special needs child. I love him and would do anything for him but its still very taxiing.
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Rose87
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:24 PM

Wait.. WHAT?

Where's the child now?

That is heartbreaking!!

HaloWithHorns78
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:25 PM
I'm not sure of all the details my Aunt posted it on facebook.


Quoting MrsWhite101610:

That's crazy. Did she give a "reason"? Not that there is really ever a good reason to abandon your child...


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HaloWithHorns78
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:25 PM
With my Aunt. My cousins mom.


Quoting Rose87:

Wait.. WHAT?

Where's the child now?

That is heartbreaking!!


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MrsWhite101610
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:28 PM

Oh, well I hope someone is taking care of the child now who has its best interests at heart. And hopefully one day the mother will realize what she gave up. Does her boyfriend say anything about it? I don't think I could ever be with a man who abandoned his child(ren)

Quoting HaloWithHorns78:

I'm not sure of all the details my Aunt posted it on facebook.


Quoting MrsWhite101610:

That's crazy. Did she give a "reason"? Not that there is really ever a good reason to abandon your child...



MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:30 PM

If her child is with a qualified adult, I don't see the issue.
Some women can't take it. Men walk away from full time responsibility all the time, it's actually considered "normal" for a fahter to only see his kids a few days a month.
Good for her for wanting more for her child than she could give IMO.

Rose87
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:32 PM

What is going to happen from now?

Is your aunt prepared to care for the child? I hope everything goes well. 

Poor little angel... 

Quoting HaloWithHorns78:

With my Aunt. My cousins mom.


Quoting Rose87:

Wait.. WHAT?

Where's the child now?

That is heartbreaking!!



JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 7:35 PM
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I would never justify anyone walking away from their kids. However, she is emotionally invested in her kid and it's heartbreaking to watch your child suffer and not be like everyone else. While it may seem like she is moving to another hard situation, I would imagine dealing with 9 kids that you have no emotional ties with would be a lot easier than dealing with 1 that you do. I hope that she sees the error in her ways and clears her head and goes back to her child, fully committed.

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