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My ex husband wants me back... my ex fiance wants me back... really..

Posted by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:05 PM
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Yup, read it right.  I left my husband a few years ago b/c he was unfaithful (after trying repeatedly to get him to stop talking to the girl, i left and divorced him).. my fiance just decided a couple of weeks ago that he didn't have anyone here for him and he'd rather be near family on the other side of the country so he told me he was moving there - did not even ask me to come with him.. packed his stuff and left.  He's still in the city btw. 

Well the ex husband has decided that he's really sorry he did what he did and he's been miserable without me these past couple of years and he wants us to be a family again.. the ex fiance has figured out that he's just not happy without me and he wants me to take him back.

WTF is wrong with these guys?!?  And why would I give either of them a second chance... Both ripped my heart out and stomped on it... 

Grrrrrrrr...

Opinions??

by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:05 PM
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HousewifeNina
by Silver Member on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:07 PM
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Your milkshakes really do bring all the boys to the yard!
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DannieLou
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:07 PM
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Take it from someone who has been there and done that...never go in reverse!!! Keep moving forward, you deserve better than that!
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mcclainprincess
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:08 PM
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If only I could keep them!!!  haha...  damn boys..  smh

Quoting HousewifeNina:

Your milkshakes really do bring all the boys to the yard!


momof4boyz1girl
by Angie on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:08 PM
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Stay away from both of them and find a good man.

Sanctimommy
by Platinum Member on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:10 PM
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Never go back to a man you left. You threw him away for a reason and he is now trash. Don't play in the trash. It's gross.

mcclainprincess
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:10 PM

I thought both were good when I met them.. ugh.. where is this "good man" that won't screw me over and come groveling back??   

I'm tired of starting over - I don't know if I have it in me anymore...  

Quoting momof4boyz1girl:

Stay away from both of them and find a good man.


b0bbied0ll
by Silver Member on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:12 PM

Find some new guys.

HisSwissMiss
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:12 PM

I LOVE your picture. Anita Blake. 

wildlilacs
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:12 PM
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Giving someone a 2nd chance is like giving him another bullet because he missed you the first time. I agree, never go reverse. I ,unfortunately, didnt get that memo....
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EmilysMom2010
by Bronze Member on Jun. 23, 2012 at 5:13 PM
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Sorry. Couldn't help it. Hehe
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