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Are you currently with your children's biological father?

Posted by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 7:30 PM
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Question: Are you currently with your children's biological father?

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I was thinking the other day some not so nice thoughts about why women don't stay with their children's father. However, I rescind all those thoughts now, because obviously men are the problem. They are predatory and generally just take in sex and overall throughout their lives. Women not only house and create life, but in our nature just want to love and be loved in return. So I'm just curious as to are you currently with your children's father and if not share what happened unless it's too harrowing. 


I'm a lucky girl I would say. Things generally have worked nicely in my favor even though I would consider myself a real f*&k up. I met my husband in high school we didn't get married until very recently, but he has been my one and only since then and him the same. We love each other and our son very much. 

Posted by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 7:30 PM
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Moogie1005
by Bronze Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 7:57 PM
My husband is the father of my youngest 3.
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itsm3
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 7:59 PM

yes i am but i disagree with your view on men.  that's pretty general and not all men are like that.  i know some douchebags who are but those are few and far between for me; the guys i know and i'm friends with treat women with the utmost respect.  



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tnbabie
by Member on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:07 AM

I am not currently with my kids biological dad.. However we are still legally married we have been seperated for 4 yrs (married 24 yrs) We are not together because he left me thinking he had a better chance with someone else..It gave me a chance to find someone to love me honestly for me 

phantomphan
by PrincessBcake on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:13 AM
I have two kids with my experience who left me for his "soul mate" and three kids with my current husband.
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momma2rhylee
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:15 AM
Yep 2 kiddos with the same man: my only 2. He however has a 3rd
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Snuggles20
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:19 AM
Well I have no kids but I have been with my dh for 5 yrs and we got married and ended up divorsed and went different ways and then ended up back together and I think the Lord everyday for bringing us back together now if only God would bless us with our 1st child")
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maceybug2233
by New Member on Jun. 27, 2012 at 10:45 PM
Were together bout to be engaged
Ahyb
by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 10:47 PM
Oh in no waydo I mean all guys and I was making hyperbole there. My husband is the most amazing, caring man I have ever known.

However my father is pretty close to my exaggerated description above.


Quoting itsm3:

yes i am but i disagree with your view on men.  that's pretty general and not all men are like that.  i know some douchebags who are but those are few and far between for me; the guys i know and i'm friends with treat women with the utmost respect.  

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WriterBlue
by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 11:05 PM

Three kids, same daddy, been together 12 years, unmarried.....

But not sure if my vote completely counts because I am getting pretty sick of him and I am ready to trade him in!!! Bwahahaha!!!!

;)

Btw, I am new here! Nice to see everyone!

lv_my_babies
by Member on Jun. 27, 2012 at 11:10 PM

Haven't seen or spoke to him in 2 years and haven't been happier about it.

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