I'm pretty upset right now at my husband
Everything was okay. We were headed out to eat dinner. My oldest was showing me how he skateboards. My youngest then tripped on my foot because he was running carelessly. He cries. He had had a scratch on his nose so I wanted to ice it in case he bumped it hard. A really tiny scratch and a lite redness on his cheek and hands.
I'm a nurse. I can handle first aid. I assessed my son calmly and took care of him. My husband on the other hand starts screaming at me WHY DID YOU TRIP HIM??!!!? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?! While I'm trying to ice him and comfort him.
I asked my husband to please stop that it was so unnecessary to yell and scream. That when someone gets hurt it's customary to provide first aid and comfort. Not blame everyone. He kept yelling at me WELL HE ALWAYS GETS HURT WITH YOU AND ONLY YOU. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING. YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OF HIM! HE ALWAYS GETS HURT WITH YOU!!!
Okay back the fuck up. He tripped on my foot. I didn't trip him. He scratched his nose. Like less than a freaking centimeter. And he ALWAYS gets hurt with me???? He's three. He plays. He's only ever scrapes his elbow TWICE in his life running around outside...because that's what kids do.
I told him at least I can fucking handle it. Instead of flipping out at everyone like a dumb ass. Man up and handle the damn situation. Don't just fucking stand there screaming at people insulting them like you're a freaking saint when you can't even handle yourself!
I went to the room with my son locked the door and I just don't want to talk to my husband becausei can't stand to look at him. I dont need that crap. I'm so upset. I'm not a bad mom and my kids don't ALWAYS get hurt with me.
I'm hurt though.