if your 16 year old daughters boyfriend posted this on her fb...... edit and update in red

Quoting mama_desi:
I would if my daughter,sister,even mother was in a relationship like that make them see the truth. The abuse only begins there and will sooner or later become physical. I would do everything I'm my power to get them apart.
Im trying. I jsut dont know how. For me being in a situation A LOT worse than this, it took thinking about my DDs future to realize it wasnt right, thankfully she doesnt have a DD, or even a DS *whew* so I dont know where to beging. Hopefully I can just talk to her when Im there and through out the 2 weeks make her think more about it.
She just posted on facebook this:
"To every that is mad at me for being with Aaron, I'm sorry if it doesn't make you happy. And I'm sorry if I've disapointed you. But Aaron.is my bestfriend nd Maybe I like spending a lot of.time with him."
and I replied
There is nothing I can say that will change your mind. Just know you are my baby sister no matter what, and anyone who can not treat you with 100% respect 100% of the time does not ever deserve you. No man is worth your tears, and the one who is, wont make you cry. I love you and Im here for you no matter what.
I spent a good 20 minutes trying to think of what to say. What was facebook appropriate and what not. Just a terrible situation. Im glad Im a grown woman, and smarter now! lol

I'd worry that her bf was controlling and abusive and I've have a talk with her about it.


Quoting mom_dl6:Um i'd talk to his parents
and they would no longer be dating PERIOD!!
Controlling someone always leads to abuse !
I would to.. I have thought about it..... still thinking about it lol

Quoting Mommyof2n0308:
Quoting mama_desi:
I would if my daughter,sister,even mother was in a relationship like that make them see the truth. The abuse only begins there and will sooner or later become physical. I would do everything I'm my power to get them apart.Im trying. I jsut dont know how. For me being in a situation A LOT worse than this, it took thinking about my DDs future to realize it wasnt right, thankfully she doesnt have a DD, or even a DS *whew* so I dont know where to beging. Hopefully I can just talk to her when Im there and through out the 2 weeks make her think more about it.
She just posted on facebook this:
"To every that is mad at me for being with Aaron, I'm sorry if it doesn't make you happy. And I'm sorry if I've disapointed you. But Aaron.is my bestfriend nd Maybe I like spending a lot of.time with him."
and I replied
There is nothing I can say that will change your mind. Just know you are my baby sister no matter what, and anyone who can not treat you with 100% respect 100% of the time does not ever deserve you. No man is worth your tears, and the one who is, wont make you cry. I love you and Im here for you no matter what.
I spent a good 20 minutes trying to think of what to say. What was facebook appropriate and what not. Just a terrible situation. Im glad Im a grown woman, and smarter now! lol
- Mommyof2n0308
Platinum Member on Jun. 27, 2012 at 5:29 PMIm so sick of everyone saying "well one day she will leave" UGH lets hope that one day she decides to leave is before he beats her (if he hasnt already!!) and before he gets her pregnant!!!!!!!!!
I had never told any of my family this before.. ever.. but when she told me she broke up with him I was soo proud of her for doing what I didnt do until I was 21. My ex beat me, he raped me, and I never decided to leave until the ONE time he pushed me through the door where DD was sitting on the couch, and I flew across the floor. I left, came back and that night he raped me... then as I layed in bed and cried (while his mom was in the other room!!!) he had a bunch of friends come over, including girls, took our new truck out for a drunken joy ride and wrecked it. I got up that morning calling women shelters everywhere and I left! I didnt go into that much detail with my sister, but I said "Ive been there, I know its hard to leave, J beat me, and it wasnt until Gab seen it herself that I knew it was time to leave for good"
and now she disregarded all of that, and is back with the m effer!