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Spinoff post: how much did you gain after you said i do!!!

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 1:55 AM
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I gained 90lbs, he was abusive mentally and i lost it, and got depressed, this all happened within 2 yr fametime!!

8 yrs later and one kid still 90
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starreyedcutie
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 1:58 AM
20lbs from a total of 3 kids
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ElmosWorld13
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 1:58 AM
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ElmosWorld13
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:01 AM
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mommasaint
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:05 AM

I'm the same weight I was when we got married 10 years ago. DH however is 40lbs heavier. Not over weight by any means, just not the bean pole teenager he was when we got married lol.  I'm so sorry you went through all that!

Mrs.Winchester
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:30 AM

Nothing.  We just got married this year in Feb.  I've lost 20 lbs this year total.

usmcwifey11
by Krysti on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:38 AM
Well, I was pregnant, so I gained about 25 lbs. Lol.
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boysmom5
by Bronze Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:40 AM
I was preggo when I got married the first time, so about 20lbs. I lost a bunch of weight during my divorce, but when I started seeing my DH, he thought I was too thin. We've been together for 6 yrs and I've gained about 50lbs. I'm miserable about it and he loves every bit of it. Go figure.
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vintage_pearl4
by Christie on Jul. 4, 2012 at 2:44 AM

I didn't gain any weight.  I have the opposite reaction to high levels of stress, I stop eating and sleeping.  Looked like skin & bones.

itsm3
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 9:39 AM

when we first got married in 2004, i didn't gain anything.  

it was only after my depression that i gained some weight (so as of 2010) but i was 108lbs at the time and needed to get back to my healthy weight....that sort of went a bit too far and i was probably about 10lbs over my healthy weight.  i've lost it all now through proper nutrition and exercise since jan 1.



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smushy79
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 9:41 AM
Married 7 years, I have gained like 10 lbs after our 2 kids.
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